as James said
James 2:15-17 "If a brother or a sister is in a naked state and lacking the food sufficient for the day, 16 yet a certain one of YOU says to them: “Go in peace, keep warm and well fed,” but YOU do not give them the necessities for [their] body, of what benefit is it? 17 Thus, too, faith, if it does not have works, is dead in itself."
We can talk all we like about Jesus sacrifice and the saving grace, but if we fail to care for our fellowman, then our faith in Jesus is pointless and it will not save us at all.
You just can't see it can you. You don't do what you say others must do. Do you own a house, a car, do you pick up strangers and give them what you have earned? How many homeless people do you allow to sleep in your house?
I say this because according to you, you are nice and you want others to see how nice you are.
The truth is that you feel everyone else isn't doing enough and you want to make a show of it so that others will think you are doing them. You feel it is your duty to put everyone else back under the law of works while you don't really do what you seem to claim you do. I boast of no personal works. I boast in the work of Jesus Christ on the cross.
Romans 2:17-23
17 Indeed you are called a Jew, and rest on the law, and make your boast in God,
18 and know His will, and approve the things that are excellent, being instructed out of the law,
19 and are confident that you yourself are a guide to the blind, a light to those who are in darkness,
20 an instructor of the foolish, a teacher of babes, having the form of knowledge and truth in the law.
21 You, therefore, who teach another, do you not teach yourself? You who preach that a man should not steal, do you steal?
22 You who say, "Do not commit adultery," do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples?
23 You who make your boast in the law, do you dishonor God through breaking the law?
NKJV
Galatians 6:13-14
13 For not even those who are circumcised keep the law, but they desire to have you circumcised that they may boast in your flesh.
14 But God forbid that I should boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.
NKJV
I never have understood the mindset of people that want to tell everyone else how to behave when they don't behave any better than the ones they post with. I think it is a form of boasting about works just as James was boasting about his.