Not sure this really helps.
Even eternal things we have to chose to believe or reject.
UNDERSTANDING FREEWILL:
Regarding the issue of "freewill",
the confusion is due to our not clearly understanding the context difference between time and eternity, leaving most to believe that freewill is relative to our living in time. It's not, but is instead relative to eternity.
Why is that important? Because just as Christ chose of His own freewill to go to the cross "
before the foundation of the world" (before time), we too made our freewill choice "
before" time. This life then--which we should be coming to understand more fully as we mature--is rather the result of that "
before" freewill decision, and we are just no walking it out.
Again, why is that important? Because we should be decreasing and Jesus (in us) increasing as we approach Oneness with Him as He and the Father are One. Meaning, that we should be working towards "
I am" thinking as opposed to "I was" or "I will be" (which is the time-based perspective)...when there is actually no "pre"(destination), "fore"(knowledge), or "time" in the "
I am", "eternity", or the "Oneness" of God. In other words, to hold onto our time-based perspective of such things is to reject His Oneness. None of which can fully be understood without realizing that God through the scriptures has only used such terms and words as a means of talking to children who have not been ready for the otherwise shocking reality of eternity, but have needed to be spoon-fed "
here a little, there a little" over time. This is the grace of God, but the would-be drawn out process and such terms as "predestination" and "foreknowledge" is not to be considered anything more than tools for our learning, to be discarded once we are ready to enter into His Oneness.
A good example of the use of child-like, or time-like language in the scriptures when it is not the whole truth of the matter, is the use of explaining the nature of God which is best said as "
I am", by saying He "
is the same yesterday, today, and forever" when there is actually no past, present, or future with God. So, these would-be contradictory terms are only even true when "eternity" is the only thing that is actually true, and when "time" is only incrementally broken down for the sake of explanation...meaning that there is no actual truth or reality to time. Go figure, even scientifically, time is a mere illusion.