I'm not sure what provoked me to write the OP. It just seems the topic is something God has really infused into my life: the true value of a woman. (her price is far above rubies). A friend of mine come to visit the other night and stayed until way after midnight talking with my husband and I about God, scripture, and love. My husband asked my friend if she believed the word is infallible. Her answer was 'some of it, but there's some I have my doubts'. The topic turned to rape and a woman's value to God. You see, my friend has suffered those things. Sexual abuse. Those really hard things no one wants to talk about. We shared with her some of what God has shown us: one being that the Proverbs woman is not a single woman but rather the entire body of Christ (His church). For the first time my friend saw it. The church is the virtuous woman. She is the one that seeks wool, works willingly with her hands, brings her food from afar, rises when it is yet night, gives meat to her household and her candle doesn’t go out by night. Yet, the virtuous woman also describes Christ (she considers a field and buys it and plants a vineyard.) We showed her Christ in some of those hard verses in the OT about rape and selling and buying and providing and covering. We kept explaining to her...it is not 'a' woman but the bride of Christ. A woman purchased is not 'a' woman as cattle but THE woman(the bride of Christ). My husband kept saying, 'don't you see, I am that woman. It is not about gender. I am the bride.' It is about what (or who) belongs to God.
Matthew 19:7-12
[7] They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? [8] He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. [9] And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. [10] His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. [11] But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. [12] For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it , let him receive it.
Twice:
All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
What is a ‘eunuch’?
"And he answered them, saying, Who is my mother, or my brethren? And he looked round about on them which sat about him, and said, Behold my mother and my brethren? For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother, and my sister, and mother." (Mark 3: 33-35)
If you are a woman that is convinced you have no real value to God...you are so wrong. The world and circumstances has fed you a lie. You have great value. The weak vessel is His church. The weak vessel, His church, is the one He lifts up and bears by His strength.