I've thought about this a lot, and I sincerely think you are sincerely in error.Don't you find it strange that the God who is portrayed wholesale in Christian circles as loving does not get rid of Satan at the outset of his rebellion and when Adam and Eve blew it tipping all their progeny into misery and death for eating one fruit.....how easily we can rationalise and arrange our thinking to see and believe the slaughter of babies to be mercy?
What has the evil one done to our heads?? ....even those who claim a God who condescends to become a creature to the point of giving his own life. There is not one pagan deity who would even imagine giving their life for the enemy!! Think about it!
God will judge His creation, this is clear throughout the Bible. I don't know why you don't think He has both the right and the willingness.
Having given His life for those who were and are His enemies.
I find this to be the greatest love story every, and you seem to be missing the heart of it.
It's all wrapped up in a God Who created something - someones - who He absolutely loves! And if you fight Him over His children . . . look out!
Much love!