I thought I'd just share with you something that happened this weekend.
I decided to take my family out 4WDing in an area I haven't been for decades.
It was a remote place - very few places with a phone signal. It was a place I used to frequent - many decades ago when I was a kid on a dirt bike, that I wanted to share with my family.
Well, with no map (and going by fond memories of myself as a kid), and by ourselves... we headed off on an 'adventure'. (The typical "She'll be right" Aussie attitude.
)
The plan was to enter from one side of the scrublands, go and find tracks through it, and exit the other side.
However, the exit from the area (the other side of the scrub-lands to what we entered) I was hoping to use was blocked off! (Seems like it had been many years ago - so things have changed in he last 2 or more decades
) - so we had to try and make our way back.
No problems - I thought I remembered a shortcut through - and seeming that it was getting late in the day, that seemed like the best plan...
Well, in the attempt, we ended up going down tracks that looked like they were little used, boggy, and with other challenges - and darkness was setting in with me having no idea where I was. At one point we were in a sticky spot I wasn't sure I was going to be able to get out of, and spending the night - unprepared - in the remote bush-land with no mobile pone service was becoming a real possibility.
It was a time where I admit - I was getting a little worried (as was my wife) - but we were trying to hide it because our 9 year old daughter was getting very anxious.
Then, to help calm her, a thought came to my mind - about a story we are reading for bedtime. (Part 2 of 'The pilgrims progress' - with Christiana and her kids). I was reminded that God never took them out of the situation - He is more interested in taking us through it, and having us learn from it, and regardless of what happens - God is in control.
I shared that with my daughter, and then quoted a couple of scriptures reminding her that even though we were in a situation we didn't want to be in - that all things work for the good to those who love God - and that God had allowed this to happen - so He was doing a work in our lives.
The situation for my daughter (and the rest of us) immediately changed from one of anxiety to one of peace. Don't get me wrong - we still didn't want to be there, and still wanted to be out... but there was something now special about what we were going through, and there was a peace in place of anxiety.
I'm not sure if I would have stopped to consider that thought if my daughter wasn't there in the first place needing assurance. I found by ministering to her (both with this situation, and by reading the Pilgrims Progress as a bedtime story) - I feel like I've been ministered to, and learned twice as much as her in that moment.
I've heard preachers say that the message they're preaching is speaking to them just as much as to anyone else. I guess that's the same when teaching our kids! :)
I decided to take my family out 4WDing in an area I haven't been for decades.
It was a remote place - very few places with a phone signal. It was a place I used to frequent - many decades ago when I was a kid on a dirt bike, that I wanted to share with my family.
Well, with no map (and going by fond memories of myself as a kid), and by ourselves... we headed off on an 'adventure'. (The typical "She'll be right" Aussie attitude.
The plan was to enter from one side of the scrublands, go and find tracks through it, and exit the other side.
However, the exit from the area (the other side of the scrub-lands to what we entered) I was hoping to use was blocked off! (Seems like it had been many years ago - so things have changed in he last 2 or more decades
No problems - I thought I remembered a shortcut through - and seeming that it was getting late in the day, that seemed like the best plan...
Well, in the attempt, we ended up going down tracks that looked like they were little used, boggy, and with other challenges - and darkness was setting in with me having no idea where I was. At one point we were in a sticky spot I wasn't sure I was going to be able to get out of, and spending the night - unprepared - in the remote bush-land with no mobile pone service was becoming a real possibility.
It was a time where I admit - I was getting a little worried (as was my wife) - but we were trying to hide it because our 9 year old daughter was getting very anxious.
Then, to help calm her, a thought came to my mind - about a story we are reading for bedtime. (Part 2 of 'The pilgrims progress' - with Christiana and her kids). I was reminded that God never took them out of the situation - He is more interested in taking us through it, and having us learn from it, and regardless of what happens - God is in control.
I shared that with my daughter, and then quoted a couple of scriptures reminding her that even though we were in a situation we didn't want to be in - that all things work for the good to those who love God - and that God had allowed this to happen - so He was doing a work in our lives.
The situation for my daughter (and the rest of us) immediately changed from one of anxiety to one of peace. Don't get me wrong - we still didn't want to be there, and still wanted to be out... but there was something now special about what we were going through, and there was a peace in place of anxiety.
I'm not sure if I would have stopped to consider that thought if my daughter wasn't there in the first place needing assurance. I found by ministering to her (both with this situation, and by reading the Pilgrims Progress as a bedtime story) - I feel like I've been ministered to, and learned twice as much as her in that moment.
I've heard preachers say that the message they're preaching is speaking to them just as much as to anyone else. I guess that's the same when teaching our kids! :)