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As I'm sitting in church my mind is rolling like my usual analytical mentally ill self haha. ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?

Growing up I thought feelings mattered(the big saving moment) I had one, I had always considered myself a Christian, I had someone pray over me during a Christian festival around 30 years ago and I definitely thought I noticed and felt a difference and it lasted with me for a while. 5 or 10 years ago I would of considered that my true beginning, but now since we have all these professionals (sarcasm) we realize feelings don't matter!..supposedly to many sides of Christianity....

It's been a tough journey on my end due to my own mental issues however since certainity is only attained by a miracle for me, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start? Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him, some say the baptism is mandatory....with of course His grace.
 
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Thank you for your post.

Is it the label “Christian” that is important to you, or is it understanding God’s expectations for you that you are unsure of.

Jesus told us there are two great commandments: to love God and love our neighbors? Perhaps it is a thorough understanding and embracing of those commandments that is holding you back.

Pray to God for understanding and wisdom. Study the Bible. Ask Questions of those in your church you consider role models.

Stay with us here.

God bless you.
 

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As I'm sitting in church my mind is rolling like my usual analytical mentally ill self haha. ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?

Growing up I thought feelings mattered(the big saving moment) I had one, I had always considered myself a Christian, I had someone pray over me during a Christian festival around 30 years ago and I definitely thought I noticed and felt a difference and it lasted with me for a while. 5 or 10 years ago I would of considered that my true beginning, but now since we have all these professionals (sarcasm) we realize feelings don't matter!..supposedly to many sides of Christianity....

It's been a tough journey on my end due to my own mental issues however since certainity is only attained by a miracle for me, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start? Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him, some say the baptism is mandatory....with of course His grace.
I've struggled with some of the same issues: always wondering if I was saved; when did I actually become saved; if I'm saved, why do I still struggle so much. Nothing really changed for me until I stopped worrying and made a firm decision that I was going to follow Christ from that day forward, no matter what. I just decided to stop trying to figure it all out and trust Him.

"Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 18:3
 
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Believe on the Lord Jesus who God has sent, and love your neighbor as yourself.

It’s that simple.

Another encouragement I would just say read your Bible if you can, get to know Jesus, and see what he has to say. He will teach you and the Holy Spirit will help you. As you invite God/Yahava along with you.
 
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It's been a tough journey on my end due to my own mental issues however since certainity is only attained by a miracle for me, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start? Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him, some say the baptism is mandatory....with of course His grace.

Yeah.

The Baptist church I went to as a teen taught that every Christian should be able to put a date and a time and a place on when they were "born again". That messed me up for thirty years, because my coming to Christ at age 12 was marked by shame and fear. Not a positive experience. Fear and shame WILL make you mentally ill.

And yet, I heard many people testify that they never had a "magic moment", but they just ... slowly realized that they trusted Jesus Christ. And their lives showed the evidence of Christ in them.

So, I say, don't worry about the "when-exactly". Don't look for certainty. Just trust Jesus, and trust in God's love for you. And maybe you will find healing.

Okay?

(PS: I said a prayer for what you called your "mental issues".)
 
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As I'm sitting in church my mind is rolling like my usual analytical mentally ill self haha. ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?

Growing up I thought feelings mattered(the big saving moment) I had one, I had always considered myself a Christian, I had someone pray over me during a Christian festival around 30 years ago and I definitely thought I noticed and felt a difference and it lasted with me for a while. 5 or 10 years ago I would of considered that my true beginning, but now since we have all these professionals (sarcasm) we realize feelings don't matter!..supposedly to many sides of Christianity....

It's been a tough journey on my end due to my own mental issues however since certainity is only attained by a miracle for me, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start? Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him, some say the baptism is mandatory....with of course His grace.

What I wish to quote also needs the background context quoted for a reason which I will explain after posting the context below. All of the following was and is written to believers.

Hebrews 10:31-34 KJV
31 It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
32 But call to remembrance the former days, in which, after ye were illuminated, ye endured a great fight of afflictions;
33 Partly, whilst ye were made a gazingstock both by reproaches and afflictions; and partly, whilst ye became companions of them that were so used.
34 For ye had compassion of me in my bonds, and took joyfully the spoiling of your goods, knowing in yourselves that ye have in heaven a better and an enduring substance.

So when the author mentions in the next verse, "Cast not away therefore your confidence", he speaks of their former confidence, which is why he has just reminded them of their own past afflictions, (for it appears they were beginning to lose that former confidence which they had at one time). After clarifying this he explains the journey they are on and how it is to come to its conclusion.

Hebrews 10:35-39 KJV
35 Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.
36 For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
37 For yet a little while, and he that shall come will come, and will not tarry. [Hab 2:3 LXX]
38 Now the just shall live by faith: but if any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him. [Hab 2:4 LXX]
39 But we are not of them who draw back unto perdition; but of them that believe to the saving of the soul.

We enter into the family of Elohim as newborns, as infants, and then grow into children. However no father sets his own babe or child in charge of all his goods: there must first come age with experience and learning, and then eventually there comes a time of testing, the time appointed of the Father when a child becomes an adult, a proven, tried and true son of the Father. Paul also makes this plain as day, but modern mainstream doctrine and its preachers and teachers seem to just ignore it, (likely because their congregations do not want to hear it), so you will not likely hear this in any church or from any mainstream preachers and teachers because it is clearly not the same easy path that they themselves teach and preach.

Galatians 4:1-2 KJV
1 Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all;
2 But is under tutors [Torah and Prophets] and governors [ Writings (e.g. Psalms)] until the time appointed of the father.

There is an appointed time coming, a time appointed of the Father, (Gal 4:2), and no one knows the day or hour: but first we must each do the will of Elohim before we can receive the Promise, (Heb 10:36).
 

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As I'm sitting in church my mind is rolling like my usual analytical mentally ill self haha. ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?
Hi, Ernie.

The words "Christian" (Acts 26:28, 1 Peter 4:16) and "Christians" (Acts 11:26) appear only three times in scripture. In each case, the underlying Greek word is christianos.


If you follow the link, and if you look where it says "Root Word (Etymology)," then you will see that the Greek word christianos was derived from the Greek word christos, which means "anointed."


Christians are those who have been anointed by God with the Holy Spirit, and that initially takes place at the time of the new birth or when we are born again.

With this in mind, Paul wrote:

2Co 1:21
Now he which stablisheth us with you in Christ, and hath anointed us, is God;
2Co 1:22
Who hath also sealed us, and given the earnest of the Spirit in our hearts.

Again, God is the one who has anointed us or made us Christians, and that took place at the time of our conversion. Notice, however, that Paul called this "the earnest of the Spirit." When Paul used the word "earnest," he had "earnest money" in mind.


What Is Earnest Money?​

Earnest money is a deposit paid by a buyer to a seller to demonstrate a good-faith intention to make a purchase, such as for a new home. In many ways, earnest money can be considered a deposit on a home, an escrow deposit, or good faith money.

As Christians, we have received "the earnest of the Spirit," which is basically a downpayment from God that states that he "earnestly" intends to complete the purchase at a later date.

Eph 1:13
In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
Eph 1:14
Which is the earnest of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

Although Christians have been redeemed by the blood of the Lamb, there is still coming a future day of redemption when we will receive the redemption of our bodies or glorified bodies.

I hope that this helps.
 

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Recently, I had to answer the question "are you a Christian?" and it was really hard (but good for me in the end).

"Christian how?" "Christian what?" I was asking myself.

In the end I just said "yes, yes, yes"!
 

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Water baptised ! this means your mum and dad have taken on the role to bring you up in the Church.

If not and you are doing such on your own bat, you get yourself water baptised.

Now one is under Christianity the Church ?

But we are called to be Baptised in the Holy Spirit = Born again !
Not that all will become born again, but that is the hope for one to come, to that point !

Problem is This world is full of deceptions and delusions in fact ! and one has the Stain of original Sin ? to deal with.

So the average christian is in a Mode of repentance ? so you mess up and you repent of such and hopfully you get better at dealing with issues of Sin when it comes your way.

But once you are born again, then you will grow like a Tree ? for one truly understands Jesus the Christ and one abides in him.

One can be toled about Christ Jesus, but that is not knowing him ! for one is changed when one knows him ? it's 100% Faith that one becomes Saved ! and can never go back to the Vomit of the past like a Dog.

Now many go to Church and repent say ? but they think that a verbal act covers the Sin's, but no such does not at all, one must be serious in repenting or you will never grow in fact.

The Priest of any Church can be just a religious person ! and that's all he is ! it does not mean he is truly born again in fact ! for they are of the same ilk as any Jew or Islamic idiot that is totaly Lost in fact ! for they do not preach Christ Jesus first and foremost in ones life ! they peddle Religion like a whore ! for they are of this world in fact ! and that's why we seen Pope Frances who was in love with Islam and Jews, so as not to offend them grubs, he would not mention Christ Jesus !

What the hell is the good of anyone who does not preach Christ Jesus !

Now the Pope etc may believe in Jesus ? but so does the Devil in fact, or why would the Devil of talked to Jesus ! not to mention the Devil could not Tempt Jesus at all ! so the Devil knows Jesus is the Christ in fact ! But the Devil has won more Souls ? to boost his own ego ?
 

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Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him,

A disciple of Christ is a "follower" who tries to imitate Jesus, and is very interested in the teachings of Jesus, and how to apply them to their life.

Whereas A Christian is a Spiritually born again "Son-Daughter of God"... who became one based on a Spiritual Birth that God gave them AFTER they gave God their Faith in Christ.

A Christian is automatically become a "Disciple".......whereas a Disciple is not become a Christian until they are Born again, Spiritually.
 

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You become a Christian the moment you repent of your sins and believe in Jesus Christ with your whole heart. Jesus said, “Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). That new birth comes when you turn from your old life of sin and trust that Jesus died for your sins, was buried, and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:3–4). It is not going to the front of a church, saying a certain prayer, or joining a group. The Bible says, “If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved” (Romans 10:9). The moment you believe, God saves you by His grace, gives you His Spirit, and makes you new (2 Corinthians 5:17, Ephesians 1:13). A true Christian does not continue living in sin unchanged. The Bible says, “Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin…because he is born of God” (1 John 3:9). Christians may stumble, but they cannot remain in sin, for God works in them and disciplines them (Hebrews 12:6–8). The answer is simple: you become a Christian the very moment you repent and believe the gospel, and God makes you His child.
 

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I've struggled with some of the same issues: always wondering if I was saved; when did I actually become saved; if I'm saved, why do I still struggle so much. Nothing really changed for me until I stopped worrying and made a firm decision that I was going to follow Christ from that day forward, no matter what. I just decided to stop trying to figure it all out and trust Him.
Exactly. That’s the point where things become clear. The Bible never says, “You are saved when you finally ‘figure it all out’ or when you feel a certain way.” It says, “You are saved when you repent and believe the gospel.” “He that believeth on me hath everlasting life” (John 6:47). “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved” (Acts 16:31).

Salvation is not about running after feelings or endlessly examining the exact moment when you “first believed.” It’s about trusting the finished work of Christ in this moment. If you have turned from sin and placed your trust in Jesus alone, then you are saved, whether you have doubts or a battle in your mind. Romans 10: 13 says, “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” That promise does not vary based on whether your faith is strong or weak.

Struggles do not make you lost, they make you a warrior in battle. Every single Christian still battles sin and wrestles with weakness. Paul said, “O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death? I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord” (Romans 7:24–25). The fact that you hate your sin, long for Christ, and keep pressing on is evidence that the Spirit of God is at work in you.

You don’t need to go back thirty years to try to narrow it down to that exact second. The real question is: Are you trusting Christ today? If so, then you are His.
 
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, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start?

A "Christian" is someone who has rejoined God's Heavenly Family as a "Son-Daughter" of God.

This means your sins are all forgiven, and God has taken you into His eternal heavenly family.

When does this happen ??????????

It happens the exact moment that God sees you faith in Christ, in your heart.
Its that exact moment you TRUST in Christ.
So, the moment that you turn to Jesus, trusting in Him...... understanding that you need forgiveness and want this and receive this in your heart......GOD sees this inside you.....and He then forgives all your sins, and instantly and forever brings you into His Heavently family supernatrually.

This is called being "born again"........and every REAL Christian is a born again Christian.
 

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As I'm sitting in church my mind is rolling like my usual analytical mentally ill self haha. ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?

Growing up I thought feelings mattered(the big saving moment) I had one, I had always considered myself a Christian, I had someone pray over me during a Christian festival around 30 years ago and I definitely thought I noticed and felt a difference and it lasted with me for a while. 5 or 10 years ago I would of considered that my true beginning, but now since we have all these professionals (sarcasm) we realize feelings don't matter!..supposedly to many sides of Christianity....

It's been a tough journey on my end due to my own mental issues however since certainity is only attained by a miracle for me, what exactly is a Christian and at what point does it start? Is it once we start following Christ instructions and lifestyle as best as possible with hope in Him, some say the baptism is mandatory....with of course His grace.
You ask a very provocative question. I just had to smile at every one's comment to your comment based on 'BEING A CHRISTIAN'. But then, I'm pretty "analytical mentally" too. lfh So hang in there a bit....or.:r.u.n:

My first thought after reading this thread, was from a book I bought years ago. My edition had a quote in the foreword from a, now dead, "American Christian Clergyman" named Warren Wiersbe. In the foreword he said;

"The emphasis in recent years on the doctrine of the Holy Spirit has helped to produce a great number of books on that subject.....Their theology (to borrow a phrase from P.T. Forsyth) is "like a bad photograph- overexposed and under developed."

But I would have to say, in this case, we have a word ("CHRISTIAN") that has been UNDEREXPOSED AND HIGHLY OVER DEVELOPED. by every post written IMO.

Chronologically, ACTS 11 was written about 41-45 AD. That was when Paul used the word to describe 'the church' 'some in the church of Antioch' The church was 40 years old!!!!! What did CHRISTIAN mean then? I have an opinion, but hope you still around Ernie?
 

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Hey @Ernie....was this a ‘drive by shooting’ or are you coming back to discuss the topic....? :no reply:

What is it that you are pondering over in church? Are you getting any solid answers to your questions?

What questions do you want answered when you have settled on the answer to the one you have posted?

Since becoming a Christian is about knowledge and faith. Some struggle with limited knowledge and a faith that wants to be strong but doesn’t have the solid knowledge needed as a foundation.
ivte made a couple posts before on how my mindset is a struggle with being a Christian, analytical, constant questioning etc ...so since definitely for myself and for many others since it's so hard to have certainity, at what point do you actually become a Christian?
What is it that you want to analyse? What questions do you need answers to right now?

What is the certainty you seek....and does just being a church member mean anything if you just show up but you are mentally challenged by all you hear....?

If you are ready to dig.....post your questions....it doesn’t matter if they are raw...just honest. :IDK:
 
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You ask a very provocative question. I just had to smile at every one's comment to your comment based on 'BEING A CHRISTIAN'. But then, I'm pretty "analytical mentally" too. lfh So hang in there a bit....or.:r.u.n:

My first thought after reading this thread, was from a book I bought years ago. My edition had a quote in the foreword from a, now dead, "American Christian Clergyman" named Warren Wiersbe. In the foreword he said;

"The emphasis in recent years on the doctrine of the Holy Spirit has helped to produce a great number of books on that subject.....Their theology (to borrow a phrase from P.T. Forsyth) is "like a bad photograph- overexposed and under developed."

But I would have to say, in this case, we have a word ("CHRISTIAN") that has been UNDEREXPOSED AND HIGHLY OVER DEVELOPED. by every post written IMO.

Chronologically, ACTS 11 was written about 41-45 AD. That was when Paul used the word to describe 'the church' 'some in the church of Antioch' The church was 40 years old!!!!! What did CHRISTIAN mean then? I have an opinion, but hope you still around Ernie?
The Bible actually answers Ernie’s question very plainly. A Christian is not someone with a label, an opinion, or based on how the word developed over church history. A Christian is someone who has been born again by faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus said, “Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). That is not about church tradition, feelings, or names, it is about a new birth that God produces.

The Bible never says baptism makes you a Christian, never says feelings make you a Christian, and never says a church title makes you a Christian. Scripture says, “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved” (Romans 10:9). That is the moment someone becomes a Christian, when they repent and believe the gospel.

The believers in Antioch were first called Christians in Acts 11:26, not because of a cultural label, but because they actually followed Christ. It was obvious they belonged to Him. That is the same test today. If you are in Christ, you are a Christian. If you are not, then the name means nothing. The question is not what men think “Christian” means, the question is whether you have been made new in Christ.
 
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The Bible actually answers Ernie’s question very plainly. A Christian is not someone with a label, an opinion, or based on how the word developed over church history. A Christian is someone who has been born again by faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus said, “Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). That is not about church tradition, feelings, or names, it is about a new birth that God produces.
If being born again defined being "Christian", why weren't the Apostles and disciples of Israel called such for 40 years?

The Bible never says baptism makes you a Christian, never says feelings make you a Christian, and never says a church title makes you a Christian.
Agreed, the bible says none of these things.

Scripture says, “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved” (Romans 10:9). That is the moment someone becomes a Christian, when they repent and believe the gospel.
Correct that's what "scripture" says. What's missing here? Uh, the word CHRISTIAN.
The believers in Antioch were first called Christians in Acts 11:26, not because of a cultural label, but because they actually followed Christ. It was obvious they belonged to Him. That is the same test today.
This "test" is your OPINION, but not scriptural.
If you are in Christ, you are a Christian. If you are not, then the name means nothing. The question is not what men think “Christian” means, the question is whether you have been made new in Christ.
I disagree. If you are IN CHRIST does not mean CHRIST is FORMED IN YOU, at the NEW BIRTH of your 'old man' spirit.

GAL 4:19 My LITTLE CHILDREN (babes in Christ), of whom I travail in birth again UNTIL Christ be formed IN YOU,
 

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If being born again defined being "Christian", why weren't the Apostles and disciples of Israel called such for 40 years?
Because believers in the Lord Jesus Christ had other names before they were first called Christians in Antioch. They were called, disciples, saints, followers of the way, and other names too.
 

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If being born again defined being "Christian", why weren't the Apostles and disciples of Israel called such for 40 years?


Agreed, the bible says none of these things.


Correct that's what "scripture" says. What's missing here? Uh, the word CHRISTIAN.

This "test" is your OPINION, but not scriptural.

I disagree. If you are IN CHRIST does not mean CHRIST is FORMED IN YOU, at the NEW BIRTH of your 'old man' spirit.

GAL 4:19 My LITTLE CHILDREN (babes in Christ), of whom I travail in birth again UNTIL Christ be formed IN YOU,
You asked why, if being born again defines a Christian, the apostles were not called “Christians” for years. Scripture is clear that new birth, not a label, is what makes someone belong to God. Jesus said, “Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). Those who receive Christ are made children of God, “which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God” (John 1:12–13). The name “Christian” appears when God chose to reveal it at Antioch, “the disciples were called Christians first in Antioch” (Acts 11:26). The reality came from God’s work of regeneration, the label came later. Scripture uses both ideas without conflict. The word Christianos appears three times, Acts 11:26, Acts 26:28, 1 Peter 4:16. The Bible also calls believers saints, brethren, disciples, those who are in Christ.

You said Romans 10:9 does not use the word Christian. It does something stronger. It defines salvation itself. “If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” The saved person is the same person Scripture describes as “born of God” and “in Christ.” “Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God” (1 John 5:1). “If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature” (2 Corinthians 5:17). “Ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:26). That is not opinion, it is the Bible’s own definition.

You said the test I gave is just my view. Scripture gives the test. We are commanded, “Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith” (2 Corinthians 13:5). John writes the marks of new birth, “Hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar” (1 John 2:3–4). True believers do not live in unbroken sin, “Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin” meaning does not practice it as a life, “for his seed remaineth in him” (1 John 3:9). Those who depart from Christ reveal they were never truly His, “They went out from us, but they were not of us” (1 John 2:19). None of this makes works the cause of salvation. Salvation is by grace through faith, not of works, and yet we are created in Christ Jesus unto good works (Ephesians 2:8–10). Works are fruit, not the root.

You argued that being in Christ is not the same as Christ being formed in you, citing Galatians 4:19. Read Galatians in context. Paul already calls them “brethren” and says they received the Spirit by faith, not by the works of the law, “Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith” (Galatians 3:2–3). He also says, “Because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts” (Galatians 4:6). They were already sons, already indwelt. “Christ be formed in you” speaks to growth and maturity, not to the absence of the new birth. God’s purpose is that the born again believer be conformed to the image of His Son over time (Romans 8: 29), being changed into His likeness by the Spirit (2 Corinthians 3:18). Union with Christ begins at conversion, “Of him are ye in Christ Jesus” (1 Corinthians 1:30). We are placed into Christ’s body by the Spirit, “By one Spirit are we all baptized into one body” (1 Corinthians 12: 13), and then we grow up into Him in all things (Ephesians 4:15).

You said you did not find Jesus, that He found you. On that we agree. “The Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost” (Luke 19:10). That saving work happens when the sinner repents and believes the gospel. “Repent ye, and believe the gospel” (Mark 1:15). “He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life” (John 3:36). Call that person a believer, a saint, one who is in Christ, or a Christian as Scripture itself does. The name is not the power. The new birth by the Word and the Spirit is the power, “Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God” (1 Peter 1:23).