Most of us have never had a major sin committed against us, but those who have suffered abuse, torture or the murder of a close relative will know that it simply isn’t possible to “just” forgive; the gravity of the offense demands recompense.
My input or 2 cents: RE the bolded... Actually it doesn't demand recompense..sure, an initial feeling sweeps over you, we are human, I know, I know.
BUT, hahaha, we actually aren't...when we do have, by Grace, a renewed mind, we dwell in the Spirit, not the ego's thought system of revenge, anger and confusion.
When we have gained wisdom, (that in our early years we could never have imagined having!)... we 'see'.
Or another way to put it ...
we are shown. (Talking from exp...abuse, incest, and yes, murder of friends).
By Grace, and only Grace...we can be shown, sure, after prayer, and we see a whole picture,
....the unfolding of the event, who all the participants were/are...
and a dawning clarity of insight comes...and thus, total peace with the sever abuse, the murders
that appear unjustified (esp to a child!). But
if we are using our ego's, limited, human logic...we will
never 'see' what was really being played out.
So what I'm saying is - it can 'just happen', but
asking to forgive is usually the reason it '
just happens'. Ha!
And be ready how the Holy Spirit opens your mind to huge, mind-blowing understandings!
And then being surrounded be people that want you to stay mad; to fall back into the lower ways of the confused mind...
But, no, it has been renewed and was able to be shown deep insights.
Just another perspective....we can never limited ourselves thinking we can not rise above this human situation..we can soar.
:)