Why is there no men's forum?

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That’s one of the reasons that I don’t - with rare exceptions - do pm’s on discussion forum platforms.

I feel the exact same way Matthias. I remember when they would a DELETE this conversation button in the PM's whereas now there is an END this conversation button. I am guessing there had to be a LEGAL reason for that change. I wouldn't believe anyone who told me otherwise though. Your information (whatever you volunteerly give up is a commodity). Even Christian forums get bought and sold off (which sale would obviously include all the data collected on their members). Voluntary contributed ofcourse.

I heard something to the effect, that data collecting on your vehicle (from inside it) is used to find reasons to charge the car owner more on their insurance. Sheesh, can imagine the traps of searches for something like a symptom you might be having, not to mention thinking you are privately sharing the same to another, and how you could have possibly helped to exclude yourself from health coverage in some way? Things like that. I don't pretend to know how it works (but that its in secret, and without your consent for the most part) and ends up being for their gain (and your loss) in the end, because its definitely not for our benefit.

Thats why I try to stay with the word of God only and keep it as light as possible online also.
 
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Do you really want to see a forum where we men sit around, laugh at belching and farting, scratch where it itches, take a leak when we need to, talk about sports and sex in various permutations and combinations, and complain about our wives?

Where did I imply this when I was speaking of just keeping a christian forum as it is with men and women on it together rather than compartmentalizing it.
 

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Where did I imply this when I was speaking of just keeping a christian forum as it is with men and women on it together rather than compartmentalizing it.
I was using your post as a segue to say what I wanted to say, rather than actually replying to you as a person. And for that, I owe you an apology.
 
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We men can (and do) turn any forum into a de facto men-only forum by discounting (if not outright ignoring) anything a woman says.

You can even use the ignore button, its definitely an option.

A private forum for men was not even what I was advocating for is what I am saying (meaning you misunderstood me).

If anyone would prefer the company of belching, and farting, talking about sex kind of guys for their companions, I would encourage the same to do one better and go off and form their own private forum to do any of that, simply because I have a hard time believing that the Lord Jesus Christ would want those who belong to him to be a part of that.
 
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I was using your post as a segue to say what I wanted to say, rather than actually replying to you as a person. And for that, I owe you an apology.

Regardless, You actually wanted to say that?
 

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If anyone would prefer the company of belching, and farting, talking about sex kind of guys for their companions, …
That’s what’s being proposed, right?

“Why is there no men's forum?”​


And why is a woman (Ms. Kayla) proposing it?
 
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That’s what’s being proposed, right?

“Why is there no men's forum?”​


And why is a woman (Ms. Kayla) proposing it?

Ms Kayla started a thread asking why there was no men's forum on a Christian forum, agreed

Men (Godly men, on a Christian forum). I do not believe she was inferring a kind of man cave for degenerates
 

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Ms Kayla started a thread asking why there was no men's forum on a Christian forum, agreed

Men (Godly men, on a Christian forum). I do not believe she was inferring a kind of man cave for degenerates
For my purposes in this thread, the Al Bundy caveman stereotype is useful.

I am curious as to why Ms. @Kayla McCanny, a woman, would want to see such a forum. I invite her speak for herself.
 
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Im not worried about a mens forum. Personally. What would be the point? I never even had a Dad...

And my Mom was emotionally distant. This is why I spent most of my life on drugs. Some people don't go that route but it seems a lot of my generation spent most of their life on drugs.
 
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For my purposes in this thread, the Al Bundy caveman stereotype is useful.

I am curious as to why Ms. @Kayla McCanny, a woman, would want to see such a forum. I invite her speak for herself.
I am woman myself, and not speaking for Kayla McCanny, but for myself and only responding to you because you had responded off my post (not to mention your misunderstanding of my post).

Try quoting her post and not mine, and I am sure she can help you out.
 
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Fortunately, it’s much easier to initiate a bad reputation than it is to build and maintain a good one.

You stated you wanted to maintain your reputation (as far as it pertains to belching, farting and sex talking men club. Your answers just are not typical of you.