I guess you all missed the point. My frien Pia in Western Australia, has being in pain for years, back, neck shoulder, you name it, got it so bad she started asking God to let her die. One day she did. Lying on her bed, she died. All of a sudden she was standing in this blackness like oil, you couldnt see a thing. She says your thought are still with you, your senses still work but there is nothing just blackness, you know there are others but you cant see them. Than she said for some reason, styill unknown to her she cried out to Jesus, and than He came, a bright light suddenly apeared and theer was Jesus. She asked Him, why didnt you come befor?? He answered her, Because you never called me with all your heart before.. Next thing she is back in bed and He is sitting with her and they talk, Now do you know what death is, death is complete and utter seperation from God, it is not something i desire. If they want to die, Than they must be right with God, but who knows Jesus has teh keys to hell so Hell can go where He likes, if they would but call.