Ya'll did a good job answering that. You certainly managed to take a very controversial topic and smooth it over with your brothers and sisters in Christ. Thanks, guys, for giving value to what women have to say. I have to admit my initial response was that no woman should ever be in leadership over a man, because the Lord's house should be set up like our own homes. Our pastor likes to say, "What do you call something with 2 heads?" His answer, "A freak." Thus, as the Bible says, the man should be the leader (spiritually and provisionally). Of course, if they aren't steppin' up to the plate, ladies, then we have to do something about it with as little demeaning and nagging as possible. We do have to put on the mind of Christ-a challenge to myself many days!!!!