God and Jesus are quoted often in the Bible. I try to do exactly what they say.
Only the red words are God's Word?
And the rest of the Word of God is optional?
You obviously believe 1 Timothy 3:1-13, Titus 1:6-9, and 1 Timothy 2:12,13 are optional and in fact should be ignored.
Notice that Paul says to Timothy "I do not allow," rather than "God does not allow." So we cannot tell whether he is counseling his protege based on personal preference or divine command.
And notice the reason he gives: "For Adam was formed first, then Eve." Why that makes not only Eve, but every woman ever born, subservient to man is not supported by any logical argument Paul bothered to develop, because he can't. It make no sense.
Feel free to deny how the Lord set things up when He created man first... to be the one who is in authority and then He created woman as a help mate.
The devil does love it so when people oppose how the Lord decided to do things as it creates an open door for him to bring in deception which has worked great on you!
1 Corinthians 11:8,9
For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.
Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
Genesis 2:18
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.