We are Complete in Him, But he has not completed His work in us. I Have used this analogy before... Just because you have all the parts of Car in one place does not mean they are properly assembled That you can drive the car. This is where the Church is, and where many in the Body of the church are.
Yes, well, your teaching is that we are missing parts. That we lack what we need.
If you feel that way,
1. Don't assume everyone else does.
2. Make it a personal matter between you and Jesus.
3. Trust in His promises.
My suggestion? Stop assuming things about others, and stop judging others based on your assumptions. In person ministry, you can get to know people, and then, after you actually have come to know them, and are in a love relationship with them, that is the time to help with someone's growth.
Otherwise, you are just beating the sheep.
Constantly posting about how the Church is so rotten and phoney and all that, this really is self-revelatory. You have to remember I've read many of your threads, and I see the tone in which you post. The contradictions and twisting people's words.
I say . . . trust Jesus, that God has given us all we need now to live Godly lives now, and instead of tearing down, we are to be building up.
Much love!