You see, for 20 years of my life I thought I was good with God, and I know I was saved and had his righteousness imputed on me, but I was oh so wrong in that i was not receiving the riches of his grace that he has for us because i was living in the same doctrinal complacency all of you here are. At a moment of Great brokeness and confession of my inadequacy and repentance of those hidden sinful desires, he began to change me from the inside out, to teach me the whole counsel of scripture, and the deep things of God. I Understood then he could not show this to me because I was unreceptive to this, because my doctrine kept me self-deceived as to needing anything. That cycle that @Behold spoke of of sin confession, repentance and sin again was my life then, so I do see how this is used falsely to make one "feel better" about themselves.... but this is not true remorseful Godly repentance (sorrow as Paul calls it), and neither is this what this post is promoting. As I said before to Pearl the confession here is about coming to the humble acceptance of our own error and self-deception, a true remorse for our lack of holiness in the face of a Thrice Holy God.... It is only then that we see how much of a worm we are and how wicked our heart is and how inept we are to change it and how we need the Holy Spirit by his grace to do the work in us that we can become his workmanship... It takes great faith to understand and act upon this faith and trust him to be not just the author of our faith but the finisher of it.