I see what you are saying however Peter is not saying that. He is saying that in the Day of the Lord, (time period) the heavens and earth will melt etc. That fire is reserved until the day of judgement.
What was Peter's point to say that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night if the fiery destruction he described won't occur until 1000+ years after Christ returns?
Why did Peter warn his readers about the coming day of the Lord if it isn't something that can possibly affect them?
Please tell me exactly how you interpret 2 Peter 3:10-13.
You will need many more scriptures to back up your view of it all happening when the Lord comes.
There are plenty of scriptures which show all unbelievers being destroyed when Christ returns. Jesus Himself taught that.
Matthew 24:35
Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.36 “
But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. 37 As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; 39 and
they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man.
What Jesus said here lines up with what Peter said here:
2 Peter 3:3 Above all, you must understand that in the last days scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires. 4 They will say, “
Where is this ‘coming’ he promised? Ever since our ancestors died, everything goes on as it has since the beginning of creation.” 5 But they deliberately forget that long ago by God’s word the heavens came into being and the earth was formed out of water and by water. 6
By these waters also the world of that time was deluged and destroyed. 7 By the same word the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, being kept for the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly.
Jesus indicated that heaven and earth will pass away at His second coming and that no one knows the day or hour that will occur. It will come unexpected like a thief in the night, as Jesus described in Matthew 24:42-44. It is upon His arrival that global destruction occurs, not 1000+ years later as you believe. Jesus said that just as the unbelievers in Noah's day didn't know what was coming and they were all destroyed, "that is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man". All unbelievers will be caught off guard by the future event where "sudden destruction" (1 Thess 5:2-3) by way of fire (2 Peter 3:7;10-12) comes down on them from which "they will not escape" (1 Thess 5:2-3).
Paul, like Peter, indicated that the destruction that will occur upon the arrival of the day of the Lord will be sudden and unexpected and will be such that "they will not escape". And, like Peter, Paul warned his readers about that coming day. Why would he do that if the destruction described did not actually occur until 1000+ years after the return of Christ? Surely, you understand that Peter and Paul were not warning their readers about something that would happen 1000+ years after the return of Christ, but rather were warning their readers about something that could happen in their lifetimes if Jesus returned in their lifetimes.
Then there is this:
2 Thessalonians 1:6 God is just: He will pay back trouble to those who trouble you 7 and give relief to you who are troubled, and to us as well. This will happen
when the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven in blazing fire with his powerful angels. 8 He will punish those who do not know God and do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus. 9 They will be punished with everlasting destruction and shut out from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might 10
on the day he comes to be glorified in his holy people and to be marveled at among all those who have believed. This includes you, because you believed our testimony to you.
Paul made it very clear that when Jesus returns He will take vengeance on all unbelievers which are those "who do not know God and do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus". So, what about believers? Paul indicated on the same day that Jesus destroys all unbelievers is the day "He comes to be glorified in his holy people and to be marveled at among all those who have believed". Paul was writing about the same day he wrote about in 1 Thess 4:13-5:11. A great day for believers and a terrible day for unbelievers.
Revelation 19:15-18 also describes the destruction of all unbelievers on the day Christ returns. So, the type of destruction Peter describes in 2 Peter 3:10-12 lines up with these other scriptures as being something that will occur on the day Christ returns.