We tend to see others as WE are, and at whatever stage of maturity WE are at and whatever lack of discernment WE are at.
When a man doesn’t yet have his senses trained to properly discern good/Spirit from evil/flesh, he winds up getting it exactly backwards. He will think someone acting awful is acting good and someone acting good is acting awful.
Do you know, the human eye actually sees things upside down? An image enters the eye upside down and only in 2D. The brain flips it and turns it into 3D. Isn’t that odd?
Before we have our senses trained to discern good from bad, we see upside down and backwards and with improper depth perception. With our senses trained, the image flips so we can correctly judge what we are seeing.
Even the human eye speaks of spiritual matters. God even speaks about mysterious things with how He created the eye to work. As
@amadeus ’ dad used to say, boy howdy!!