If you dont have free will, then who is choosing you to come here and post?
As I have said, and as you have ignored we have a bastardised level of will constrained in fickle bodies constrained in a controlled environment. I will that I could fly in the air, as a human, like superman. It doesn't happen. If god wills that, it happens (assuming your concept of god exists). Limited choices are not free will, they are limited choices.
Is God choosing you to deny His Existence and to deny His Son, also?
I am made the way I am made. It's a poor creator that blames his creations for the way things are. I create a robot, give it limited capacity to think, give it limited information saving the real knowledge for myself and set it free. It sees a world that is fallible and imperfect and reasons that the creator is fallible and not omnipotent. Do I get angry at the robot because it has reasoned this way? Should I send the robot to the melting pot for being insulting and obstinate?
Who programmed the robot? . . . . . . Self-delusion.
What ive discovered is that if a person does not want to face what they've done, and who they are, then they will deny they had the free will to make those choices, and were just "doing what i was supposed to do".
People do things in the controlled environments they have been caged in. Their choices are limited. If I offer you a red ball or blue ball you have a choice. A free choice. But you want a green ball. That's not on offer. Your choices have been restricted. You don't have free will. Your will was for a green ball. You can't have it. Everything else is smoke screen. Only the top dog has free will and the top dog will never share that power and give it to all. Worse still a top dog that punishes a person who yearns and seeks for more knowledge is simply a tyrant. Hence we know that the Christian ideology is wrong. The Bible has been crafted, censored, edited, to support this system of control. The bits that were inconvenient truths were struck out, plucked like leaves of a flower, like the Nag Hammadi codices. Doubtless there are other sources of important knowledge that have been suppressed. Long since. The age is drawing to a close however and we approach the era of enlightenment. The truth will out. Important secrets will be revealed to humanity and those who have mislead, enslaved and suppressed will face a reckoning imho.
Here is the good news.
God accepts us as we are, and loves us as we are, and sent Christ on our behalf.
Clearly not. At least not according to your doctrine. If we were accepted "as we are" then we would all be heading for Heaven regardless of anything else. But such a proposition wouldn't give the Church control over the hearts and minds of people. They need people to be in debt, to accept a position of vulnerability and to be fearful and afraid. Hence the invention of sin. They need to use psychological techniques of scaremongering to frighten people into their system of control. I've been there, tasted it, experienced it. I am now immune to it. I see the truth. Those conducting the scaremongering are wicked, abusive and cruel. I won't tolerate such abuse being perpetrated on me. It's a disgusting way to control people. Anyone with half a brain and the capacity to think should realise there can be no truth in such a system.