No, that's not the right attitude for those in Christ. A Christian forum is supposed to mean brethren 'in house', of Christ's Church, and not those outside the Church. With our own, we ARE... TO REBUKE for correction of the brethren. Apostle Paul even showed to do it OPENLY IN THE CHURCH when a believer errs so the rest of the congregation can learn.
1 Tim 5:20
20 Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
KJV
Congregations in my area, like the Menonites, still do that very freely in their congregations. Their preachers openly embarrass a believer in their congregation that really messes up. Our preacher in the Church I was raised in would only speak harshly about the sin, showing it from Bible Scripture, while his eyes focused back and forth on the one guilty in the congregation. All one had to do was to look at where he was staring and you'd know who he was talking about.
I never said we can't rebuke. I said we don't need to be rude and hit people personally. Attack the belief not the person. You were pointing out how someone else starts it.. as a defense to be rude. That's childish--"he did it first!!" lol come on...
A gentle answer turns away wrath.. is how we ought to view it. Not always so easy I admit that.
You disagree because you grew up Mennonite? Are you still? I know many-
the plain dressed ones- I know they can vary. I think they are old order. They I know are friendly enough, but believe their church is the only true one.. due to plain clothing, and so there's that nonsense. One I know is a staunch flat earther - it's like an obsession.
As to your verse- yes, but that's unrepentant sin- not a different view on eschatology.
Maybe you have a different gauge for who is a believer than I do. I don't believe that eschatology is a determining factor.
It can be an indicator, but only if the rest of what they believe is messed up.
How I see it- when it comes to the stuff you guys tend to argue about and the people that you debate- t
hey are your brothers and sisters in Christ- so we all ought to be more kind when we disagree on eschatology. Just my opinion.
You are not arguing against wolves, false prophets, deceivers, and Pharisees. ...
Look at how angry I get at JWs- I have been told several times to show Jws love by people here. I struggle with that because what they teach is antichrist, and you can have all the love in the world and it will not impress a jw. I have 9 Jws in my family. They are not just some other denomination that also happens to hate the trinity- this is a mind control cult
who denies that Jesus' blood is the only payment for our sins. They have the audacity to come here and lie trying to slither in amongst Christians (who they call antichrists) incognito looking to sew doubt and ultimately convert.
Their eschatology is insanely ridiculous as a direct result of
that lie about paying for sins. I don't think I have attacked any of them personally- but have stated that they come here purposefully to lie- because they do. People have no clue what they really teach!. I am not going to be loving to that behavior. Nor will I be loving about false prophecies.. the list of things to rebuke and expose is endless with them. Yet-- yes I am told to be nice by people who if they actually understood that religion would also be angry.
They destroy people wholesale- I wont kiss up. I will expose them and document it. When they lie I will call them out. How did Jesus and Paul confront the liars who seek to knock our faith and hurt us? Did you know Jws teach that they are locusts of Rev here to HARM Christians because you don't have the seal of HS?
It just can not be compared to about how I speak to them- and how we are to speak to other believers.
Sorry for the rant. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in the world who understands the evil of the JW religion.
I wish that experience on no one.
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