And just remember that that truthy is on people in many many staged of spritual growth.
A baby Christian who knows little of Scripture has as much Jesus in them as the most learned believer! So do not look at how perfect one is. god knows His own, we can only judge by the external and that can be deceptive. Immature Christians will live different lives than more mature believers and a believer may be caught up in a besetting sin and look unsaved while still be a child of God!
Scripture instructs us that we grow as believers by stages, I agree. But there is a clear line in the Word between
spiritual immaturity and unrepentant hypocrisy. A new believer is bound to trip up now and again in their learning process, but one who is willfully, unrepentantly sinning has shown themselves to not be born again. “Whoever is born of God does not continue in sin, because His seed remains in him” ~1 John 3:9.
Spiritual infancy is not a life sentence. “Like newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the Word, that you may grow thereby” ~1 Peter 2:2. God desires His children to mature as they increase in faith and in the obedience of it.
When a person is spiritually stagnant for years and will not allow correction, does not have any fruit of repentance in their life,
it’s not immaturity.
It’s disobedience. That’s what Paul addressed in the Corinthian church: “
By now you ought to be teachers, but you still need milk, not solid food” ~Hebrews 5:12. True believers grow in holiness. The reason they do is because the Holy Spirit works in them “both to will and to do for His good pleasure” ~Philippians 2:13.
“I’m just a baby Christian” is not a lifelong excuse one can hide behind. Growth is evidence of life. Where there is no growth,
there is every reason to question whether the new birth happened at all.
True believers fall, but they do not remain in sin. They are convicted, and the Spirit corrects and renews them. “The Lord knows those who are His,” but He also says, “Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity” ~2 Timothy 2:19. God’s children grow up in holiness.
They do not grow up in comfort with sin.
This is the problem today. We preach love without speaking truth. We let people wallow in rebellion because we don’t want to be mean. But love without truth is a lie. Jesus did not die to make us comfortable in our sin. He died to set us free from our sin. “You shall call His name Jesus, for He shall save His people from their sins” ~Matthew 1:21.
When people use the term “love” to get out of obedience to God, they are guilty of spreading a false gospel. Scripture says, “By this we know that we know Him, if we keep His commandments” ~1 John 2:3. God loves us enough not to leave us in our sin. He loves us enough to want to change us. If you are a true follower of Christ, you will want the same. Any message that leaves people in bondage to anything is not the gospel of Christ.