If Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph, then conception would not be impossible — only not yet. In that case She would ask when She will conceive, not how conception could occur.
To me it fits with life doesn’t come through the flesh.
There is no “not yet” regarding the flesh.
Without God it is impossible. I’m referring to Life where the Spirit of God will come upon you and you’ll bear fruit that bears forth into Life.
So I see your point it can’t be a “not yet” through the flesh. But as Mary showed it’s a miraculous birth.
And Gabriel’s response still doesn’t fit your interpretation. He does not tell her she will conceive through Joseph once the betrothal period ends. He instead explains a miraculous, non‑sexual conception and reinforces it by citing Elizabeth — a woman whose conception was naturally impossible.
Miraculous non-sexual conception? Isn’t this again described when Paul spoke to them saying “until Christ be formed in you”? Is this not a miraculous conception?
Why do both Mary and Gabriel speak as though conception is impossible without divine intervention if Mary expected normal marital relations?
Without divine intervention… I think of it as the fruit of God doesn’t come by natural birth, but is given from above. Mary was lowly and humble in her lowly state. God keeps saying this is how it happens for others also.
Proverbs 16:18-19 Pride goes before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall. [19] Better it is to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud.
I’m not claiming Mary thought She was incapable of natural conception. I’m pointing out that Luke presents both Mary and Gabriel speaking as though conception is impossible without divine intervention.
Of a woman is a virgin does it add anything to being able to miraculously conceive? That is like saying the flesh can do something to add to what is only by Gods divine intervention. No sexual act involved in
James 1:15-18 Then when lust hath conceived, it brings forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, brings forth death. [
16] Do not err, my beloved brethren. [17] Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. [18] Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.