Let me see. I was completely honest with my response. I provided appropriate scripture, but this is just a sample. There is far more. I know what scripture teaches and so far, you haven't provided any salient scripture to the conversation.
If the Apostle Paul says some are chosen before the foundation of the world, why would you want to disagree with that?
Something else Paul said:
Romans 8:28-30English Standard Version (ESV)
28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good,[a] for those who are called according to his purpose. 29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. 30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.