Hi guys, New Guy here, my name is Stuart and i am a Christian

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how can christians help the mentally ill or is that Gods responsibility?


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Stuart

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I've been a Christian all my life but not actively until about 7 years ago, i have had a mental illness for a long time but i accept that it must be part of the plan,
 
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Hello Stuart,
Welcome to the forum!
I have no personal experience with mental illness. So all I can offer is:
1. God Loves You
2. You are never alone
3. You are a part of the plan.

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Hello, Stuart. Welcome to the forum.
I believe that we all have wounding and areas that need healing (physical, spiritual, mental). So we shouldn't shun or judge a brother or sister who struggles with mental illness. It's up to God to heal. I do, however, believe that with some mental illness, there can be spiritual strongholds that need to be dealt with.

Due to being born into a very abusive environment and subjected to trauma from birth, my mind split into alter personalities. It is something that God is still healing. I have received much healing over the last 15 yrs.

Although DID (dissociative identity disorder) is not a mental illness (but a coping mechanism), I can relate to the vast misconceptions, misjudgment and lack of knowledge, as well as lack of compassion within the churches where it relates to these types of issues.
 

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I've been a Christian all my life but not actively until about 7 years ago, i have had a mental illness for a long time but i accept that it must be part of the plan,
hello Stuart....when all is said and done, all of us have a mental illness of some sorts. I think thats why we struggle with each other to a greater or lesser extent.

God give us patience with each other, in particular teach us to love those so easily labeled by our systems.
 

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Hello, Stuart. Welcome to the forum.
I believe that we all have wounding and areas that need healing (physical, spiritual, mental). So we shouldn't shun or judge a brother or sister who struggles with mental illness. It's up to God to heal. I do, however, believe that with some mental illness, there can be spiritual strongholds that need to be dealt with.

Due to being born into a very abusive environment and subjected to trauma from birth, my mind split into alter personalities. It is something that God is still healing. I have received much healing over the last 15 yrs.

Although DID (dissociative identity disorder) is not a mental illness (but a coping mechanism), I can relate to the vast misconceptions, misjudgment and lack of knowledge, as well as lack of compassion within the churches where it relates to these types of issues.
I like you TLHKAJ !
 

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as well as lack of compassion within the churches

I'm not sure i would say there is a lack of Compassion, it is a bit strange from what i have observed during my time attending Church, I think my congregation relies heavily on God for Wisdom which is great and they are being guided to try and take the best approach which is more of a 'hands off approach' let God do his work, let him heal by thine hand, but i do get supported to an extent, my minister really helped when i got unwell in October, I think he helped but it has turned out to be the best course of action for me in hindsight now anyway, He also annointed my head and prayed for me, then i got unwell and my trials were great, i was under constant attack from the evil one, my congregation prayed for me, you see they trust the system that is in place that has been set up for me to help me, they must have felt i was in Gods hands 'and i was' its hard to know what to do sometimes though so i just try and trust in God.
 

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What about me? I’ve often felt like you have a problem with me :D

I like you.

This feel like school days haha!


Oh sorry ... @Stuart ...WELCOME to the forum.

I would agree with @quietthinker ...we ALL have to have a mental problem to remain a member here ...it’s all part of the package LOL
Hi, @Helen ...are you talking to @quietthinker or me? :)
 

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I'm not sure i would say there is a lack of Compassion, it is a bit strange from what i have observed during my time attending Church, I think my congregation relies heavily on God for Wisdom which is great and they are being guided to try and take the best approach which is more of a 'hands off approach' let God do his work, let him heal by thine hand, but i do get supported to an extent, my minister really helped when i got unwell in October, I think he helped but it has turned out to be the best course of action for me in hindsight now anyway, He also annointed my head and prayed for me, then i got unwell and my trials were great, i was under constant attack from the evil one, my congregation prayed for me, you see they trust the system that is in place that has been set up for me to help me, they must have felt i was in Gods hands 'and i was' its hard to know what to do sometimes though so i just try and trust in God.
It sounds like you have a church family who is doing the best they know. At least they haven't shunned you. I haven't found a church yet who would accept me. They will until I allow someone close and they find out my history and what I deal with. Then, I get told it's my fault, get prayed over, then shunned ...or like the time my children and I were assaulted (cult retaliation) and I asked for help, I was escorted out of the church by my friends as they told me I didn't belong there.

I knew God had led me there 2 years before and that I was to share my testimony. There was a real need for them to be aware. But I was ejected. Five years later, one friend apologized to me. She said she finally realized that they needed to hear my testimony. (The pastor and several members were multigenerational victims of SRA/satanic ritual abuse, and my testimony helped shed light on their needs.)

But no matter what church I enter, I last between 3 months to a year before things start going south.
 

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It sounds like you have a church family who is doing the best they know. At least they haven't shunned you. I haven't found a church yet who would accept me. They will until I allow someone close and they find out my history and what I deal with. Then, I get told it's my fault, get prayed over, then shunned ...or like the time my children and I were assaulted (cult retaliation) and I asked for help, I was escorted out of the church by my friends as they told me I didn't belong there.

I knew God had led me there 2 years before and that I was to share my testimony. There was a real need for them to be aware. But I was ejected. Five years later, one friend apologized to me. She said she finally realized that they needed to hear my testimony. (The pastor and several members were multigenerational victims of SRA/satanic ritual abuse, and my testimony helped shed light on their needs.)

But no matter what church I enter, I last between 3 months to a year before things start going south.
People want to be comfortable and your testimony speaks to them of the evil things happening to people now! If that makes them uncomfortable there is something wrong with where they are with God... and they certainly don't want to hear discomforting things. Not every person in every assembly will always be like this, but as you have discovered, even if there are exceptions, too many are and through no fault of your own, you suffer for it!

"From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.
Then said Jesus unto the twelve, Will ye also go away?" John 6:66-67

I still have you and yours in prayer!
 

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What about me? I’ve often felt like you have a problem with me :D

I like you.

This feel like school days haha!


Oh sorry ... @Stuart ...WELCOME to the forum.

I would agree with @quietthinker ...we ALL have to have a mental problem to remain a member here ...it’s all part of the package LOL
lol....now isn't that interesting Helen. Don't be concerned bugalugs about not being liked....an unnecessary concern. I do however wish that you would seriously consider new points of view instead of reverting to familiar conclusions arrived at in your younger years. I feel this practice pushes aside new revelations and with it new experiences in growth.
 

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We all need to grow spiritually that is for sure, no-one person is an Authority, the only Authoruty is..well you dont need me to tell you,

TuKaj you are welcome at my church we are a very friendly bunch and the way things are just now most of the believers are thinking about end times, i am however will not get bogged down with supposition and concentrate on being a good desciple, If you have a testimony it has to be dedicated to god, everything that has happened in the past is supposed to be put behind you when you are saved and even more so when baptised
its a clean sheet as they say, i also take communion when i can and that is a good way to clean my sheet as well (if you will) :)

Its not nice getting shunned by the mental health online community , a person should have the right to express his or her faith in any circumstances, whoever made up the rule that religion was against the rules needs their head examined :( its not fair really but this looks like a decent forum, is it busy enough?
 
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I've been a Christian all my life but not actively until about 7 years ago, i have had a mental illness for a long time but i accept that it must be part of the plan,

Welcome Stuart. The only real way to recover from mental illness is to work with a psychiatrist and psychologist team. If you aren't please do so. Don't go for any witchdoctor cures people might try to sell you like phony exorcisms and the like.

Hope to see you around! Cheers :)
 
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Welcome Stuart. The only real way to recover from mental illness is to work with a psychiatrist and psychologist team. If you aren't please do so. Don't go for any witchdoctor cures people might try to sell you like phony exorcisms and the like.

Hope to see you around! Cheers :)
Dont worry i've been in the system for about 20 years and i have recovered a lot esp in the last ten years and Rediscovered God 7years ago, I heard his calling, people were abusing his name and i did not think that was appropriate, we are supposed to be civilised human beings :(
 

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God is with you all,

btw i am finding it extremely difficult to navigate this forum, i'm going to catch some zzz's :)
 
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Dont worry i've been in the system for about 20 years and i have recovered a lot esp in the last ten years and Rediscovered God 7years ago, I heard his calling, people were abusing his name and i did not think that was appropriate, we are supposed to be civilised human beings :(

Super, that makes me happy. I have a mental disability, and have been in the system now since 2001, which is 20 years and because of it I am not disabled. Without the medicine I take (just one pill a day) I am no longer paranoid or delusional, although I'm not 100% sane either, but then again is anyone 100% sane?

You will find some abuse here also, please don't let it get to you, we get anyone from anywhere here, and not all are nice like they're supposed to be. Cheers and hope to hear more about your views :)