Helen
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hmm...i know this is a hard thing to grasp, but God does not even see those things; we even have vv that verify this. I'm not a parent, but my guess is that a mother could explain here better than me.
Examined from another pov, nothing stays secret forever, or even for long, i don't think; but of course new children come of age every day, and do the same corrupt things believing they are keeping them secret, even after the father has learned the lesson, i guess. So you say (and i guess see) "not put a stop to it," but i suggest that that is a function of your vision, where you are focussing maybe. For if we were to examine a current case, we would surely see that it will resolve like past cases have, and that there is nothing done in secret that will not come to light after all.
and when this does not satisfy imo check your state of Codependency, and ask yourself why you are dwelling on these situations that are surely outside your control anyway? Are you bothered by some past sin that you have already rebounded from, and consider abhorrent now, etc? Did you ever confess this sin to those you committed it upon, or if that is not possible, to anyone? Iow is it possible that you feel you have gotten away with something, or not been forgiven of something?
or what sin that others are committing do you think God is not dealing with correctly? You mention child abuse, so i'm led to wonder if there is someone you have not forgiven yet? But there is no healing in examining others' sins, fwiw
I have to say Amen to that...because I almost wrote the very same yesterday!!
1) God sent His Church...in His stead, and with His authority. So when we begin to judge God for not doing this that and the other...we should look right back at ourselves...We are the reason that the world is not a better place...not God.
As the saying goes.
"We have identified the enemy, and the enemy ....is us"