has God given us a spirit of fear. or a sound mind?
these people who want to teach Fear and works as motivation to do good do not understand who God is.
That verse is not talking about fear of God, it is talking about other fears that are a product of not having a sound mind, and/or are a cause of not having a sound mind.
Fear of the Lord is all over the bible, old and new testaments. Anyone can do a word search and consider what is written about it. My sense, just to use my own words is that fear of God means one is first of all acknowledging the reality and truth of His existence.........and that we are giving him the honour and awe and total respect that is rightly due to Him because of knowing His vast superiority and authority over us and all creation. It is a fear of being displeasing to Him and falling out of favour with Him because He is after all, a very Great King who has the right to rule over us. It means to take Him seriously and not lightly.
Mal 1:6
A son honoureth his father, and a servant his master: if then I be a father, where is mine honour? and if I be a master, where is my fear? saith the LORD of hosts unto you, O priests, that despise my name. And ye say, Wherein have we despised thy name?
Jesus told us to fear Him who is able to destroy both body and soul in Gehenna. In the letters of the apostles we are told to work out our salvation with fear and trembling and to be perfecting holiness in the fear of the Lord. It is indeed a motivator, and a legitimate one, and it helps to keep us growing and moving forward and taking more ground, because while the spirit is willing, the flesh is weak. So on our side, the reality is that we need it, we just do. The other side of the coin is that we need other things too, like comfort and encouragement......I think of it that there is a kind of tension and balance between both sides of the coin, a kind of paradox, and it's like the Lord apportions each one to us in His wisdom, as and when we need it, and as we seek Him for help to grow and be obedient. I believe perfect love casts out fear, because if and when we are walking in the Spirit with our life/psuche on the altar/cross, walking in His perfect will, there is no need to fear in that sense. Perfect love is talking about our love for God....no greater love has any man than this, than that he lay down his life for his friend. Perfect love is us laying down our life for the Lord, which is what one is doing if/when we are walking in the Spirit, as Jesus was when He was in the world.
1Jo 4:17-19
Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment:
because as he is, so are we in this world.
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
We love him, because he first loved us.
I'm just sharing what the Lord is kindly showing and teaching me also about this. The Lord is often opening things to my understanding as I engage with a topic and ask God about it, and I'm preaching to myself too as I share what He is giving me. I'm understanding this better today than I was yesterday, thanks be to God. :)