Cheating and repentance

If I was married to a man and had a child with him and he messed around on me many times, I would have been hurt. I would have cried and screamed into a pillow until the sun came up, and I would have gone through a whole bunch of mess with him, but then I would have split up with him and went my own way.

Then after becoming a Christian, I would have forgiven him, and every once in a while remember to pray for him and his new wife and family.

That's just how it worked out. I don't see the point in wishing harm on anyone. I just want them to be saved before Christ's return. That's it.

 

Luke 6:27-28
“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you."

That's love.

 

I’m not wishing harm on anyone I simply said she played she paid, I’m also against homosexuals and all the other deviant things that go with it not just adultery and I'm also for the death penalty.

 

I think it's evident what you're seeing isn't the consequence of God's justice. It is just part of a fallen world and part of what takes place apart from God.

God isn't in that. Jesus isn't in that.

It is easy to look at that kind of tragedy and know it is absent from Christ; the consequence of living in a evil, sinful world while refusing a good God.

 

I never said God or Jesus was involved, just that she wanted to be play so she paid, her infidelity caught up to her.

 

Rita I am simply saying there are consequences for everything we do, just like her lover that killed her he will suffer his consequences as well.

 

Yes Rita, I simply meant her unfaithful acts caught up to her, and her lover will also pay the consequences for murdering her.

 

Anytime Rita, and thank you for allowing me to explain.

 

Thank you Rita.

 

If you have truly repented, go and sin no more as Jesus would say and leave it up to God, whether your wife will stay or not.

I understand her hurt as it is a big betrayal of her trust in you, keep praying and keep asking forgiveness in hopes that God keeps your family together.

 

I think you are fine. God has already buried your sin. Micah 7:19
"He will turn again, he will have compassion upon us; he will subdue our iniquities; and thou wilt cast all their sins into the depths of the sea."
Heb 8:12
"For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more."

And referring to John 8:1-11.


1 but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.
2 At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them.
3 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group
4 and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery.
5 In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?”
6 They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger.
7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”

8 Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.

9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there.

10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin

So had any of us been there, we would've seen our sins as well. Mary Magdalene was forgiven and admonished to sin no more. You have been forgiven, and are admonished, as we all are, to sin no more. Perhaps our brethren here would do well to remember that part.

Your sin is buried. You are free.