This is a thread designed to evaluate the Bible's teachings against what is accepted in Christendom as such.
I come from the perspective of being a believer in Christendom's doctrines until I actually checked out the Bible for myself, and when I studied it, I used my own KJV because it was the one I had read since childhood and I have to say, what I found was confronting....that was decades ago, and I am still learning.
I will list the things that impacted on my life as I learned them....one at a time.
My first question, after losing my father to an unexpected heart attack when I was 19 years old.....(which was completely unexpected).....I wanted to know where my father had gone.
I know how devastated were were, and I couldn't help but wonder if supporting the church financially was enough to get him into heaven...? Then it occurred to me that he must be feeling the same way that we were, being suddenly severed from our very close family.
Was he up there mourning the loss of us, as we were mourning for him? All of a sudden, going to heaven didn't seem like a wonderful thing. How could heaven ever be a happy place if God was up there snatching people away from their families and loved ones? What was the point of life on earth with all its troubles, if God was only going to send the dead to either heavenly bliss or eternal hellfire? Who was this God? I began to doubt him.
The church minister would not even conduct the funeral service because my parents were not church goers, so he sent his assistant to do the job. His empty and meaningless words made me angry....because my parents were poor, but gave to the church every week to support the minister. Yet, he never once visited our home or made any attempt to offer them spiritual support. If they were "lost sheep" that was his obligation. It was the first big 'crack' I saw, but certainly not the last.
Any attempt to answer my questions about death and what expectation there may have been for my Dad, were fobbed off because I think they thought he wasn't good enough to warrant their concern, and were too 'polite' to tell me that he might have died out of favor with God.
This just made me more determined to get my answers from the Bible.
Then JW's knocked on my door after me praying earnestly to God for answers to my questions.
So you can guess what my first question was...."where are the dead". I was expecting them to respond like all the others I had asked....but without a moment's hesitation they brought out their Bible and asked me to go and get mine....they showed me Ecclesiastes 9:5, 6, 10, which in my KJV read...
"For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten.
6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun. . . . Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest."
No one had ever shown me anything like that before....the dead were not conscious, existing in another realm....they "know nothing", their emotions have "perished" even their LOVE! and they are 'not capable of work, plans, knowledge or wisdom in the grave'.....the dead are actually dead.....but not without hope, as they also showed me Jesus' promise to resurrect ALL those who were in their graves....this was not immortality of the soul, but a resurrection or restoration back to life.
John 5:28-29...
"Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice, 29 And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation."
So ALL of the dead were going to experience a resurrection in the future...that hour was "coming".....and since my father was a good man, I hoped that Jesus would not forget him. I felt like a great weight had been lifted from my shoulders. He was not in heaven missing us, he was sleeping peacefully, never to be troubled by the problems of this life ever again. I can look forward to the time when Christ establishes his Father's Kingdom over redeemed mankind and Revelation 21:2-5 can have its fulfillment...
"And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
3 And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God.
4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
5 And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful."
What a wonderful future!
I hope to see my father again.
I come from the perspective of being a believer in Christendom's doctrines until I actually checked out the Bible for myself, and when I studied it, I used my own KJV because it was the one I had read since childhood and I have to say, what I found was confronting....that was decades ago, and I am still learning.
I will list the things that impacted on my life as I learned them....one at a time.
My first question, after losing my father to an unexpected heart attack when I was 19 years old.....(which was completely unexpected).....I wanted to know where my father had gone.
I know how devastated were were, and I couldn't help but wonder if supporting the church financially was enough to get him into heaven...? Then it occurred to me that he must be feeling the same way that we were, being suddenly severed from our very close family.
Was he up there mourning the loss of us, as we were mourning for him? All of a sudden, going to heaven didn't seem like a wonderful thing. How could heaven ever be a happy place if God was up there snatching people away from their families and loved ones? What was the point of life on earth with all its troubles, if God was only going to send the dead to either heavenly bliss or eternal hellfire? Who was this God? I began to doubt him.
The church minister would not even conduct the funeral service because my parents were not church goers, so he sent his assistant to do the job. His empty and meaningless words made me angry....because my parents were poor, but gave to the church every week to support the minister. Yet, he never once visited our home or made any attempt to offer them spiritual support. If they were "lost sheep" that was his obligation. It was the first big 'crack' I saw, but certainly not the last.
Any attempt to answer my questions about death and what expectation there may have been for my Dad, were fobbed off because I think they thought he wasn't good enough to warrant their concern, and were too 'polite' to tell me that he might have died out of favor with God.
This just made me more determined to get my answers from the Bible.
Then JW's knocked on my door after me praying earnestly to God for answers to my questions.
So you can guess what my first question was...."where are the dead". I was expecting them to respond like all the others I had asked....but without a moment's hesitation they brought out their Bible and asked me to go and get mine....they showed me Ecclesiastes 9:5, 6, 10, which in my KJV read...
"For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten.
6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun. . . . Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest."
No one had ever shown me anything like that before....the dead were not conscious, existing in another realm....they "know nothing", their emotions have "perished" even their LOVE! and they are 'not capable of work, plans, knowledge or wisdom in the grave'.....the dead are actually dead.....but not without hope, as they also showed me Jesus' promise to resurrect ALL those who were in their graves....this was not immortality of the soul, but a resurrection or restoration back to life.
John 5:28-29...
"Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice, 29 And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation."
So ALL of the dead were going to experience a resurrection in the future...that hour was "coming".....and since my father was a good man, I hoped that Jesus would not forget him. I felt like a great weight had been lifted from my shoulders. He was not in heaven missing us, he was sleeping peacefully, never to be troubled by the problems of this life ever again. I can look forward to the time when Christ establishes his Father's Kingdom over redeemed mankind and Revelation 21:2-5 can have its fulfillment...
"And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
3 And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God.
4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
5 And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful."
What a wonderful future!
