1. Did Father pull the power? Or did the child never have the power yet but thought he did because others told him he did?
Do you know how devastating it is for child to realize that he was never really loved and probably never would be? I bear that scar on my soul also.
2. Do you think that describes me? Answer honestly, it’s okay.
Does it always have to be all about you?

Pray with the Psalmist, "Search me, and know my heart O Lord. See if there is any wrong thing in me". You will ALWAYS need to be on guard for this temptation.
(C'mon, you know I've seen your heart and been touched by it.)