The big reason I hold to 'Amil'....well, two reasons, I suppose....are these: firstly, I was raised to believe the pre-trib, pre-mil position...although goodness knows it was never really talked about much. But as I grew older I just couldn't make certain scriptures add up. So I prayed, read, prayed, read some more...for a couple of years, and feel God has led me to this position....which leads to the second reason...which also perhaps answers Arnie's question as well:
It was my desire to NOT ignore bible passages that led me to such a position.
I have always been taught that in bible learning and interpretation, we must start with the easier to understand passages, and use that understanding to guide us in the more difficult passages. Revelation has always been an entire book surrounded by speculation and interpretations that were based on beliefs...not the other way around, I believe. So those who were pre-trib, pre-mil, would read it and go....'aha! That obviously means that'.
Given that it was such a difficult book, I (and all other 'Amils' I believe) went looking for what the bible says about Christ's return. Because it seems to me that the end times debate hinges on that event.
What does Corinthians tell us about Christ's return?
For as by a man came death, by a man has come also the resurrection of the dead. For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ shall all be made alive. But each in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, then at his coming those who belong to Christ. Then comes the end, when he delivers the kingdom to God the Father after destroying every rule and every authority and power. For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death.
(1 Corinthians 15:21-26 ESV)
So is it with the resurrection of the dead. What is sown is perishable; what is raised is imperishable. It is sown in dishonor; it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness; it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body; it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body. (1 Corinthians 15:42-44 ESV)
I tell you this, brothers: flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. (1 Corinthians 15:50-53 ESV)
When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written:
“Death is swallowed up in victory.”
“O death, where is your victory?
O death, where is your sting?”
The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
(1 Corinthians 15:54-57 ESV)
So...we see in Corinthians....that Christ, being resurrected in his new body, was firstfruits, and that when he returns, so we shall receive ours. This is then the end, when Christ delivers the Kingdom of God to his father, where he has bought everything under his reign, even death.
We then see several things that backs this up: when we receive our new bodies, it is because we have entered into the Kingdom of God...we have our heavenly bodies...flesh and blood cannot enter it. We also see that this is the same time as it is said that Death is now defeated, which in 15:26 tells us is the very last enemy.
(Jesus)...who has gone into heaven and is at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers having been subjected to him. (1 Peter 3:22 ESV)
Peter confirms that even now Jesus has authority over everything...the only thing left is death.
In 1 Thessalonians we see that the 'Rapture' happens at the second coming, an event that is not secret or quiet, and in 2 Thess 2:1 we again see Paul talking, as he did in 1 Cor 15:42-44, that our 'gathering' to him (or Rapture) happens when Jesus comes again.
For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. (1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 ESV)
Now concerning the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and our being gathered together to him, we ask you, brothers, (2 Thessalonians 2:1 ESV)
Now we consider the Judgement that comes.
For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done.
(Matthew 16:27 ESV)
and to grant relief to you who are afflicted as well as to us, when the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven with his mighty angels in flaming fire, inflicting vengeance on those who do not know God and on those who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus. They will suffer the punishment of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might, when he comes on that day to be glorified in his saints, and to be marveled at among all who have believed, because our testimony to you was believed. (2 Thessalonians 1:7-10 ESV)
“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. And he will place the sheep on his right, but the goats on the left. Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’
“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’ Then they also will answer, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to you?’ Then he will answer them, saying, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.’ And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.” (Matthew 25:31-46 ESV)
If you read Revelation 20:11-15 (The White Throne Judgement), you see a startling similarity between it and the goats and sheep judgement...too much of a similarity to ignore. The other passages make it clear that this judgement happens when Jesus returns.
And this last passage I will share, clearly shows that when Jesus returns, it "The End"