How do you guys deal with disappointment?
As many of you have probably noticed, I tend to be a bit idealistic
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Which, most of the time, I believe is a great benefit for my spirituality and choice of careers. However, when I do run into the disappointment in life - it hit me like a piano dropped from the 37th floor. I am vulnerable to being crushed when I am tired and my blood sugar is out of whack - unfortunately, disappointment often leads to anxiety and whacky blood sugars levels.
Today, I made time in my schedule to shop, cook and deliver food to a sick friend as well as drive her to an appointment. It required me to get up an hour early and drive my wife to work so I could use her car and pick her up after work. So when I got to the person's house - I was informed that they mixed up the appointment time and did not need me to drive them. So I told them that I would deliver the food I made them later that evening. I spent quite a bit of time shopping and cooking the food - when I delivered it, no one was home. A note told me to leave the food on the doorstep and that the person had to run a quick errand. I did - but I was starting to feel kind of disappointed. I just found out that the person was really out at a movie with another friend of ours.
So, I am disappointed and tired and feel low - I think things hit me harder than most, which brings me to the topic......how do you handle disappointment and what do you do to get out of it?
As many of you have probably noticed, I tend to be a bit idealistic
Which, most of the time, I believe is a great benefit for my spirituality and choice of careers. However, when I do run into the disappointment in life - it hit me like a piano dropped from the 37th floor. I am vulnerable to being crushed when I am tired and my blood sugar is out of whack - unfortunately, disappointment often leads to anxiety and whacky blood sugars levels.
Today, I made time in my schedule to shop, cook and deliver food to a sick friend as well as drive her to an appointment. It required me to get up an hour early and drive my wife to work so I could use her car and pick her up after work. So when I got to the person's house - I was informed that they mixed up the appointment time and did not need me to drive them. So I told them that I would deliver the food I made them later that evening. I spent quite a bit of time shopping and cooking the food - when I delivered it, no one was home. A note told me to leave the food on the doorstep and that the person had to run a quick errand. I did - but I was starting to feel kind of disappointed. I just found out that the person was really out at a movie with another friend of ours.
So, I am disappointed and tired and feel low - I think things hit me harder than most, which brings me to the topic......how do you handle disappointment and what do you do to get out of it?