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The longest friendship I have and it is close is with someone who lived a few doors down from us in H.S. She would do anything for me and I her too. We don't get to see each other often because she lives pretty far out there but, we do speak and get together for lunch sometimes. The other long friendship I had with a women who was 27 and I was 19. Her and I did everything together. We even had planned (HAHA!) to rent an RV and just drive around the country and visit small schoolhouse church's, quaint restaurants, when we retired. Unfortunately, she developed dementia about 10 years ago and she's in a nursing home now. I miss her...we talk all the time as, she forgets that I DO call her, lol. But, she is not who she was, she's always angry at God but, I know how deeply she loved and followed Him for so long. She can't help it, God knows.
But yeah, friendship...if a friend needs help, if possible, drop everything you are doing and go immediately to help them...that is how my dementia friend was.
Love one another's quirks and be able to talk about ANYTHING. And yes, having things in common and that's not always easy to find so, it's to be cherished if/when you do! Humility with one another, forgiveness, understanding, empathy, confession...lot's of things really, that make up a healthy friendship :)
BTW- Jesus is my best friend too :)
The longest friendship I have and it is close is with someone who lived a few doors down from us in H.S. She would do anything for me and I her too. We don't get to see each other often because she lives pretty far out there but, we do speak and get together for lunch sometimes. The other long friendship I had with a women who was 27 and I was 19. Her and I did everything together. We even had planned (HAHA!) to rent an RV and just drive around the country and visit small schoolhouse church's, quaint restaurants, when we retired. Unfortunately, she developed dementia about 10 years ago and she's in a nursing home now. I miss her...we talk all the time as, she forgets that I DO call her, lol. But, she is not who she was, she's always angry at God but, I know how deeply she loved and followed Him for so long. She can't help it, God knows.
But yeah, friendship...if a friend needs help, if possible, drop everything you are doing and go immediately to help them...that is how my dementia friend was.
Love one another's quirks and be able to talk about ANYTHING. And yes, having things in common and that's not always easy to find so, it's to be cherished if/when you do! Humility with one another, forgiveness, understanding, empathy, confession...lot's of things really, that make up a healthy friendship :)
BTW- Jesus is my best friend too :)