@Jane_Doe22,
Do you consider it immoral on God's part, that He puts people in hell, who do not receive Jesus Christ as their Lord and Saviour (who do not accept His proposal of marriage)?
Is there not more to this than meets the eye?
In answer to your question, I do not have a daughter; but if I did, I would not consider that to be a healthy relationship and would discourage her from pursuing it.
However, are we righteous to apply the same principle to our relationship with the Lord? For He does indeed put in hell those who will not accept His proposal of marriage. But is this the whole picture?
The reality is, that men and women are sinners deserving of judgment; and that anyone who accepts Christ's proposal of marriage will be forgiven; but not only that, they will be transformed within so that they are no longer deserving of judgment.
So the issue of God's proposal of marriage is not the only issue involved. If it were the only issue, then you would be right in the reproach of the Lord that you have set forth here.
But it is not the only issue. The other issue involved is that God is the judge of the whole earth; and that men require it of Him that He be the judge of the whole earth.
So when God judges those who do not accept His proposal of marriage; it is not directly because they rejected his proposal: but it is that because they have rejected His proposal, they continue to be sinners deserving of judgment.
He has given us free will; and will not change a person's heart against their will. So He offers to change a person's heart and at the same time sends us an offer of love in a proposal of marriage (see Hosea 2:19-20).
But you attempt to liken God to the person in your analogy that burns the woman who does not accept his proposal. Again, I say, that you are not taking into account the whole of the matter; and are attempting to reproach the Lord of the Universe.
Jde 1:14, And Enoch also, the seventh from Adam, prophesied of these, saying, Behold, the Lord cometh with ten thousands of his saints,
Jde 1:15, To execute judgment upon all, and to convince all that are ungodly among them of all their ungodly deeds which they have ungodly committed, and of all their hard speeches which ungodly sinners have spoken against him.
Pro 28:5, Evil men understand not judgment: but they that seek the LORD understand all things.