I think you think that if you state an opinion enough times that makes it a fact. Well, that is not the way it works. Scripture refutes your error. It forbids your doctrine.
Salvation is a gift from God emanating out of His heart of grace.
The Oxford Dictionary defines a gift as: "a thing given or received without payment."
We can't purchase it, we can't earn it, we don't deserve it, we cannot work for it. We just receive it.
So, what it that gift?
Romans 6:23 says: "the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord."
There you have it! It is a gift, and that gift is eternal life.
Eternal life is a gift we receive in this life.
How long is "eternal"?
How long is "everlasting"?
There is the end of the debate!
Ephesians 2:8-9 affirms: “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.”
God gives us the gift of faith to respond. It is not a quality or ability we possess. Salvation involves us responding to the effectual call of God. That voice is a quickening voice – it brings life to the dead. It is a free gift that is received when you first acknowledge your guilt and second acknowledge your need of Christ as Savior and Lord.
Many people in our day put their trust in themselves instead of Jesus Christ – and then they think they are going to waltz into heaven and high-five Jesus and live with Him forever. What foolishness.
Prove to the rest of us you are being intellectually honest here in light of the following. Since you want to use the book of Romans to prove your point, I will do the same.
Romans 11:11 I say then, Have they stumbled that they should fall? God forbid: but rather through their fall salvation is come unto the Gentiles, for to provoke them to jealousy.
12 Now if the fall of them be the riches of the world, and the diminishing of them the riches of the Gentiles; how much more their fulness?
13 For I speak to you Gentiles, inasmuch as I am the apostle of the Gentiles, I magnify mine office:
14 If by any means I may provoke to emulation them which are my flesh, and might save some of them.
15 For if the casting away of them be the reconciling of the world, what shall the receiving of them be, but life from the dead?
16 For if the firstfruit be holy, the lump is also holy: and if the root be holy, so are the branches.
17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert graffed in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree;
18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee.
19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be graffed in.
20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear:
21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
Prove that these verses are not being applied to Gentiles. Prove that these verses don't mean when a Gentile is graffed into the good olive tree that this equals salvation. Prove that any Jews cutoff from the good olive tree equals salvation.
Where we are at thus far. No way are you going to dispute that these verses are in regards to Gentiles. No way are you going to dispute that it means salvation for any Gentile graffed into the good olive tree. No way are you going to dispute that if Jews get cutoff from the good olive tree that this equals no salvation for them.
With all of this in mind, the following is going to either fully expose you as someone intellectually honest or someone intellectually dishonest. Unfortunately, and I wish I was wrong here, but I suspect it's going to fully expose you as being one who fits the latter not the former.
Romans 11:21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
Assuming these things were to happen to a Gentile after having been graffed into the good olive tree--lest he also spare not thee--if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
You don't dispute that any Gentile graffed into the good olive tree equals saved. Now you need to prove how verse 21-22 does not equal NOSAS if that were to happen to any Gentiles after being graffed into the good olive tree. You cannot argue, and be taken as being intellectually honest, that if verses 21-22 were to happen to any Gentiles after being graffed into the good olive tree, that this equals they were never saved to begin. That contradicts that you already agree for a Gentile to be graffed into the good olive tree equals saved.