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I am often dismayed at the uncharitable opinions expressed by some Christians about homosexuals.

There is no doubt that the Bible clearly condemns all homosexual behaviour as sinful.
Sexual lust, both heterosexual and homosexual, are also condemned as sinful.

The fact that there are predisposing genetic and environmental components in developing SSA (same sex attraction) is not an excuse for sinful behaviour, but should act as a check on lack of empathy for those trapped in a deviant lifestyle.

Studies show that identical twins reared apart have a higher chance of both having SSA than siblings which indicates there is a genetic contribution.
Environmental factors beyond an individual's control can also impact the development of aberrant sexual feelings.

Everyone is born with certain psychological predispositions that shape their personality and behaviour ... when these feelings or actions are condemned by Scripture, we are called upon to resist temptation in the power of Jesus Christ.

For example, I have been prone to outbursts of anger while my wife has been an extremely calm person all her life ... with God's help I am not what I used to be, but nor am I yet what I ought to be. Galatians 5 includes unjustified anger along with other sins, including sexual immorality.

We do not have to cave to the lgbt+ ideology infecting many liberal churches, but we will never win to Christ those we despise - we need to show Christian empathy and support for the struggle many people with SSA go through as they gradually grow in grace to become a mature Christian.
 
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I don't agree with the gay, etc, lifestyle but I always love my neighbor as myself. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
 
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I am often dismayed at the uncharitable opinions expressed by some Christians about homosexuals.

There is no doubt that the Bible clearly condemns all homosexual behaviour as sinful.
Sexual lust, both heterosexual and homosexual, are also condemned as sinful.

The fact that there are predisposing genetic and environmental components in developing SSA (same sex attraction) is not an excuse for sinful behaviour, but should act as a check on lack of empathy for those trapped in a deviant lifestyle.

Studies show that identical twins reared apart have a higher chance of both having SSA than siblings which indicates there is a genetic contribution.
Environmental factors beyond an individual's control can also impact the development of aberrant sexual feelings.

Everyone is born with certain psychological predispositions that shape their personality and behaviour ... when these feelings or actions are condemned by Scripture, we are called upon to resist temptation in the power of Jesus Christ.

For example, I have been prone to outbursts of anger while my wife has been an extremely calm person all her life ... with God's help I am not what I used to be, but nor am I yet what I ought to be. Galatians 5 includes unjustified anger along with other sins, including sexual immorality.

We do not have to cave to the lgbt+ ideology infecting many liberal churches, but we will never win to Christ those we despise - we need to show Christian empathy and support for the struggle many people with SSA go through as they gradually grow in grace to become a mature Christian.
I would disagree with you that studies that indicate that there are predisposing genetic and environmental components in developing SSA (same sex attraction) means its a fact as you stated.
But otherwise I agree with you.
Knowing the truth and seeking to follow it is the key rather than judging. One thing we should consider is when the lgbt+ activists talk about the lgbt+ community its worth pointing out there are secular homosexuals (ie Douglas Murray, David Starkey, etc) who dont associate with the so called lgbt+ community or even recognise it exists. There are homosexuals who are against the 't' (Kathleen Stock, Julie Bindell) and there are believing Christians (Rosaria Butterfield, Becket Cook) etc etc. So are these gays anti-gay?
Christian brothers and sisters such as Rosaria and Becket are precious
 
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Seen and heard this so many times, just right at the start

"that I just knew too many wonderful Christian people who were in gay relationships". What made these people wonderful Christians exactly and does that mean Jesus was wrong when He affirmed that God made male and female and it was for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?
What was the reason God made male and female if not as Jesus says so that a man can be united with his wife

Its like, because they were so good at believing and following most of Jesus teaching it justifies this one sin.

Matt 19 "All these I have kept,” the young man said. “What do I still lack?” Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

My answer to Tony Campolo would be, why are you judging these Christians as wonderful and on what basis? Are these wonderful Christians determining what is right or wrong rather than Jesus?
 
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I would disagree with you that studies that indicate that there are predisposing genetic and environmental components in developing SSA (same sex attraction) means its a fact as you stated.

When people deny the genetic and environmental factors (which have been well documented) they are more prone to demonize homosexuals and blame them for being different, and provide less support for those with SSA who are seeking to live in accordance with Biblical precepts.

But otherwise I agree with you.
Knowing the truth and seeking to follow it is the key rather than judging. One thing we should consider is when the lgbt+ activists talk about the lgbt+ community its worth pointing out there are secular homosexuals (ie Douglas Murray, David Starkey, etc) who dont associate with the so called lgbt+ community or even recognise it exists. There are homosexuals who are against the 't' (Kathleen Stock, Julie Bindell) and there are believing Christians (Rosaria Butterfield, Becket Cook) etc etc. So are these gays anti-gay?
Christian brothers and sisters such as Rosaria and Becket are precious

I have heard Becket Cook speak - he has a wonderful testimony.
 
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When people deny the genetic and environmental factors (which have been well documented) they are more prone to demonize homosexuals and blame them for being different, and provide less support for those with SSA who are seeking to live in accordance with Biblical precepts.
But there are no proven genetic factors, only indicators. There are no proven genetic factors that make us all selfish either
 
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I don't agree with the gay, etc, lifestyle but I always love my neighbor as myself. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

I am aware of one situation where an office bearer in a church told his pastor that he experienced same sex attraction. Instead of getting support, he was stripped of his office, so he stopped going to church. This lack of understanding and empathy drives people away from the church when they need it most.
 

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But there are no proven genetic factors, only indicators. There are no proven genetic factors that make us all selfish either
I did warn us about heeding science and etc .
Sin is sin . And while we condmen none , we ought to warn out against ALL sin .
Todays generation acts like if one warns against sin its automatically condmening .
But no it aint .
THIS is what is hate .
YE shall NOT hate your neighbor in your heart . Its hate .
So allow me to finish this .
YE shall not hate your neighbor in your heart , but you shall in any way Rebuke him and not allow sin upon him .
This overlooking sin is hate . So again i invite us all to return to the scriptures.
 
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But there are no proven genetic factors, only indicators. There are no proven genetic factors that make us all selfish either

There is not a direct causal link. However, twin studies show there are predispositions to certain behaviour, which is also impacted by the environment.

Homosexuals do not choose to have same sex feelings - however they do choose what they do about it
 

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I am aware of one situation where an office bearer in a church told his pastor that he experienced same sex attraction. Instead of getting support, he was stripped of his office, so he stopped going to church. This lack of understanding and empathy drives people away from the church when they need it most.
In the heart of man lies much evil .
There is no sin that is to be overlooked .
Nor are we to pick and choose what sins to expose while making excuse for o ther sins .
All sin must be corrected and warned out against .
This is but another tatic that allows leaven to remain and acting like its lo ving and kind .
IF we think exposing and warning the church not to sin is in any way in error
WE really need to get in that bible again and see how THEY did things in and with that church .
This generation thinks its real sneaky and clever .
Always pandering and always making it seem as hateful and wrong to correct sin
in the church . No sir . Nor will i allow this sensual stuff
to make any kind of entry unto this people .
Grave verses gravy . Oh i know these people quite well my friend .
And i speak of those who were sneaking this sensual love into the churches .
THIS is an agenda . And it has worked much damage unto many churches too .
Sin , all sin must be exposed and corrected .
Not just certain sins , ALL sins . to for sure include the love of money as well .
 
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There is not a direct causal link. However, twin studies show there are predispositions to certain behaviour, which is also impacted by the environment.

Homosexuals do not choose to have same sex feelings - however they do choose what they do about it
Sin is ever present within man . And all can be tempted .
We must be diligent at all times .
And we had better all be on gaurd too .
Because a sensual version of love so called has overtaken a whole lot of chrisetendom as well .
Lets open us some bible . The main number one problem with many churches
is that stopped reading certain parts of the bible to their people , under the guise
hey we dont want to offend and run off . BIG MISTAKE .
Number one . Scripture ought to be read a lot . to be reminded and stirred up .
Number two . IF any sees and knows of one in a sin that is in that church
The must be corrected instantly . Not rather , as do many , when one comes in to expose sins
they run them off saying HEY GOD IS LOVE and we dont judge .
This generation would have judged CHRIST and the apostels right out of all churches , with their version of love .
 
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I did warn us about heeding science and etc .
Sin is sin . And while we condmen none , we ought to warn out against ALL sin .

Yes, it is important to oppose ALL sin as defined by the Bible - how often do we hear a warning against lust or pornography or pre marital sexual contact?

I understand there being a greater cry against homosexual behaviour because many are trying to claim that sin is no longer sin.
 
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Sin is ever present within man . And all can be tempted .
We must be diligent at all times .
And we had better all be on gaurd too .
Because a sensual version of love so called has overtaken a whole lot of chrisetendom as well .
Lets open us some bible . The main number one problem with many churches
is that stopped reading certain parts of the bible to their people , under the guise
hey we dont want to offend and run off . BIG MISTAKE .
Number one . Scripture ought to be read a lot . to be reminded and stirred up .
Number two . IF any sees and knows of one in a sin that is in that church
The must be corrected instantly . Not rather , as do many , when one comes in to expose sins
they run them off saying HEY GOD IS LOVE and we dont judge .
This generation would have judged CHRIST and the apostels right out of all churches , with their version of love .

I have no problem with calling sin out as sin ... but if we stop there and do not go an extra mile to help an individual who needs support, we are not fulfilling the law of Christ.

Galatians 6:1-2
Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault,
ye which are spiritual, restore such an one
in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself,
lest thou also be tempted.
Bear ye one another's burdens,
and so fulfil the law of Christ.
 
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Yes, it is important to oppose ALL sin as defined by the Bible - how often do we hear a warning against lust or pornography or pre marital sexual contact?

I understand there being a greater cry against homosexual behaviour because many are trying to claim that sin is no longer sin.
i concur we must warn against all sin . that would include being reminded against partaking of pornography and fornication
ALL sin .
The greatest sin of all is now even being taught by more and more even in the church .
The dire need to Absolutey have to beleive ON JESUS
is now being removed for a lie .
That is what always happens when sins are not corrected . THE LEAVEN GROWS and the leaven TAKES OVER .
There is dire necessity for why paul and others warned and oh yeah they seriously rebuked those in sins that had not
repented of said sins . They carried the keys of correction , the rod .
ITS true they had much rather seen the children doing good . but if and when sin was seen
THEY sure did correct it quickly .
Sapphira and her husband found that out real quickly .
As did others .
What shall i come to you in love or with A ROD . no one wants the ROD of correction , THOUGH at times
IT is necessary .
THE Key is we must all return to the scriptures and see again HOW they did things .
JESUS did not walk around kissing rainbows and overlooking sins with a judge not God is love mentality .
Did you know he corrected any error he seen . EVEN to those who had invited him to dinner .
At one point HE gets so angry , RIGHTEOUS ANGER , he picks up a whip and gets real busy
cleaning house . GOD will never be pleased with rebellion , with sin , and with those who justify THEIR SIN .
And if we love the brethren then we had not allowed sin to remain upon them . WE had corrected
with the biblical pattern of correction . s
 
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i concur we must warn against all sin . that would include being reminded against partaking of pornography and fornication
ALL sin .
The greatest sin of all is now even being taught by more and more even in the church .
The dire need to Absolutey have to beleive ON JESUS
is now being removed for a lie .
That is what always happens when sins are not corrected . THE LEAVEN GROWS and the leaven TAKES OVER .
There is dire necessity for why paul and others warned and oh yeah they seriously rebuked those in sins that had not
repented of said sins . They carried the keys of correction , the rod .
ITS true they had much rather seen the children doing good . but if and when sin was seen
THEY sure did correct it quickly .
Sapphira and her husband found that out real quickly .
As did others .
What shall i come to you in love or with A ROD . no one wants the ROD of correction , THOUGH at times
IT is necessary .
THE Key is we must all return to the scriptures and see again HOW they did things .
JESUS did not walk around kissing rainbows and overlooking sins with a judge not God is love mentality .
Did you know he corrected any error he seen . EVEN to those who had invited him to dinner .
At one point HE gets so angry , RIGHTEOUS ANGER , he picks up a whip and gets real busy
cleaning house . GOD will never be pleased with rebellion , with sin , and with those who justify THEIR SIN .
And if we love the brethren then we had not allowed sin to remain upon them . WE had corrected
with the biblical pattern of correction . s
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In the heart of man lies much evil .
There is no sin that is to be overlooked .
Nor are we to pick and choose what sins to expose while making excuse for o ther sins .
All sin must be corrected and warned out against .
This is but another tatic that allows leaven to remain and acting like its lo ving and kind .
IF we think exposing and warning the church not to sin is in any way in error
WE really need to get in that bible again and see how THEY did things in and with that church .
This generation thinks its real sneaky and clever .
Always pandering and always making it seem as hateful and wrong to correct sin
in the church . No sir . Nor will i allow this sensual stuff
to make any kind of entry unto this people .
Grave verses gravy . Oh i know these people quite well my friend .
And i speak of those who were sneaking this sensual love into the churches .
THIS is an agenda . And it has worked much damage unto many churches too .
Sin , all sin must be exposed and corrected .
Not just certain sins , ALL sins . to for sure include the love of money as well .
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I did warn us about heeding science and etc .
Sin is sin . And while we condmen none , we ought to warn out against ALL sin .
Todays generation acts like if one warns against sin its automatically condmening .
But no it aint .
THIS is what is hate .
YE shall NOT hate your neighbor in your heart . Its hate .
So allow me to finish this .
YE shall not hate your neighbor in your heart , but you shall in any way Rebuke him and not allow sin upon him .
This overlooking sin is hate . So again i invite us all to return to the scriptures.
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Studies show that identical twins reared apart have a higher chance of both having SSA than siblings which indicates there is a genetic contribution.

Even studies can be biased in their methodology, interpretation, financial interests, etc. The fact you can have identical twins where one is gay and one is not would seem to dispel the genetic theory. As far as I know, no gay gene has ever been found. And if such a gene did exist, it would not have been able to proliferate because it couldn't have been passed on to the next generation for obvious reasons. I would wager that environmental factors are probably the largest contributor.
 
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Nonetheless we don't want to come to know the Truth.

The bigger problem now is trans ideology. Same sex relations deny the purpose of God for man and woman, transgender denies God's very creation of man and woman.