Christians don't hate gays. We try to pull them out of the fire. Gay advocates are leading and following gays to the everlasting fire.
The whole goal of a church community is to support each other in the Lord, and keep themselves in the mercies of God.
It is not to be accepting unconditionally of church members engaging in and practicing sexual immorality without genuine repentance.
Look how apostle Paul commands the Corinthian church to expel a man who has his father's wife in a sexual relationship. The man later repented and was accepted back into the church. Paul says they were 'puffed up' as in prideful and seemingly approving of the sexual immorality. I seen the same thing in an Episcopal church my sister in law attends. She supports all manner of sexual immorality among her church people, she says they love each other and she won't judge them.
1 Corinthians 5
1 It is actually reported
that there is sexual immorality among you, and such sexual immorality as is not even [
a]named among the Gentiles—that a man has his father’s wife! 2 And you are [
b]puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he who has done this deed might be taken away from among you. 3 For I indeed, as absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged (as though I were present) him who has so done this deed. 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when you are gathered together, along with my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, 5 deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord [
c]Jesus.
Paul goes on to call these people evil who are sexual immoral, and claiming to be a Christian, and the church is to have nothing to do with anyone named a believer who is committing sexual immorality, along with a whole host of sins being practiced by such people.
Believers in a church are not to be like the world. They are to live holy lives to God and respect what He says. Believers are to judge those in the church, and those on the outside, God will judge.
Immorality Must Be Judged
9 I wrote to you in my epistle not to [
f]keep company with sexually immoral people. 10 Yet
I certainly
did not
mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world. 11 But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner—not even to eat with such a person.
12 For what
have I
to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? 13 But those who are outside God judges. Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person.”