As citizens of the Heavenly Jerusalem by faith in the Lord Yeshua, who was the Word that came, was born in flesh. Lived a perfect life, and paid the price of sin for all people allows for anyone to come to the Father in heaven who puts their faith in the one whom raised Jesus from the dead. A new life will be given to that believer who now decides to have a prayer life, to spend time reading the Bible, to live by faith and by the spirit out of it all to have love for God first.
There is a reason to put God first, it allows for him to work in your life on your behalf. Now does that mean every prayer will be answered? No. Why is that you may ask? Because it is just simply is that way. In this life human existence is futile, as eventually this flesh that is on the body dies and then goes back to being dirt eventually, some things are preserved. Everyone will pass away, and not every wound is healed when it comes to the body. If a person needs medicine that is simply just a have to because it is what is called for their needs. Not every mental illness is healed, or those who are mentally retarded ever recover. This is why a person must put God first, because he is the one who provides life to us, and to everyone in the world, every day which is the breath of life which comes to us when we are first born into this world.
If you desire to mature the biggest thing a person can do is spend time having a relationship with God, and to pray, and read the bible, just read it over and over again, make notes, write certain subject scriptures down, and read them out to yourself every morning, pray, praise, and given thanks.
Never know what might could happen.
(It is always about having love for God first - and having love for others (to treat others with kindness by the spirit, putting GOd first in any given situations (doesn't matter how many times a day God listens to prayers but may those prayers done for the will of God to live by faith and the spirit).