I think I might understand a little bit what you mean here…like, if you gently push on what they mean to convey by a word or sentence, they readjust and readjust until they think they have sounded…”good?”The most difficult, and annoying, ones. are those who try to adapt their language (wording) to how they describe their condition...rather than allow the words of God convict them. That's why I am a stickler for the meaning of words. When words change their meaning the gospel, is changed into something that suits the flesh.
They are looking for acceptance from men, I think, rather than from God.
Im becoming a little bit of a stickler too. like With the word faith. I much more prefer “trust” since men seem to think faith means: what I’ve been taught by other men.