@JohnPaul you seem to have the same issues my husband has everywhere he goes. (And yes, I said husband ....because I'm female. lol) He's 55 and still dealing with this problem. He has always been a diligent worker and does the work of 3 or 4 people. The perk to that is ....he still to this day has a job if he needs it at places he formerly worked, because his supervisors have a lot of respect in him. He has a reputation as someone who knows his trade better than most, is faithful and honest, and is peaceful with his coworkers and supervisors.
About finding a Christian counselor, I'd say just give it a try before you rule a person out based on their denomination. My former counselor was Baptist, and I attended Assembly of God. She was the best fit for me and God used her greatly in my life for over 2 years. She wasn't too proud to ask my insights on scripture related to the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues. We had some great conversations on scripture. And although she was "minister" and I was "client" she never looked down on me or made me feel lower. So just pray and ask the Lord to lead.
Blessings!
About finding a Christian counselor, I'd say just give it a try before you rule a person out based on their denomination. My former counselor was Baptist, and I attended Assembly of God. She was the best fit for me and God used her greatly in my life for over 2 years. She wasn't too proud to ask my insights on scripture related to the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues. We had some great conversations on scripture. And although she was "minister" and I was "client" she never looked down on me or made me feel lower. So just pray and ask the Lord to lead.
Blessings!