Examples are everywhere.
1Th 2:1
For yourselves, brethren, know our entrance in unto you, that it was not in vain:
1Th 2:2
But even after that we had suffered before, and were shamefully entreated, as ye know, at Philippi, we were bold in our God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention.
1Th 2:3
For our exhortation
was not of deceit, nor of uncleanness, nor in guile:
1Th 2:4
But as we were allowed of God to be put in trust with the gospel, even so we speak; not as pleasing men, but God, which trieth our hearts.
1Th 2:5
For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloke of covetousness; God
is witness:
1Th 2:6
Nor of men sought we glory, neither of you, nor
yet of others, when we might have been burdensome, as the apostles of Christ.
1Th 2:7
But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
1Th 2:8
So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.
1Th 2:9
For ye remember, brethren, our labour and travail: for labouring night and day, because we would not be chargeable unto any of you, we preached unto you the gospel of God.
1Th 2:10
Ye
are witnesses, and God
also, how holily and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves among you that believe:
1Th 2:11
As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father
doth his children,
1Th 2:12
That ye would walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto his kingdom and glory.
I think sometimes we forget we are all on this pilgrimage together. And everyone wants to be right.
This adventure is more to do with how we treat each other than the road we're on.
Because the road we are travelling IS based on how we treat each other.
And if we are harsh or unjust with our neighbor is it any wonder that sometimes we find ourselves being treated harshly or unjustly.
I don't think we can escape how others treat us. All we can do is escape the same retaliation towards others.
There is no avoidence of being offended or offending others. I believe the answer lies in forgiving others and being forgiven.
Don't hold grudges. Be patient. Everyone is on a different learning curve.
And just when we think we know it all.... lol
Just make sure your "firmness" isn't so adamant that it can't be amended as needed.
We all make mistakes. The hard part is acknowleding them and moving on to better things.
We still have a long ways to go to live up to the standard even Paul set before us.
And he was following Jesus' example.
Everyday a little more perfect than the day before.
Sometimes it takes a lifetime before we even get a glimpse of the picture.
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