Lambano
Well-Known Member
I wanted to say, "It's only a sin if you enjoy it!", but your question deserves a serious reply.Yes I find there are a lot of hypocrities here. After 22 pages, they still haven't answered a simple question. Is doing sexual things *not talking about sexual intercourse* with a girlfriend/boyfriend a sin? I think not, but they just want to say it is a sin, even though most likely they did it themselves at an early age. They're no role models. I don't know anyone who hasn't done sexual things with they're boyfriend/girlfriend.
Is my understanding correct that by specifying, "*not talking about sexual intercourse*", you are speaking of up to and including oral sex, mutual masturbation, and other fun things married couples do to please each other sexually?
I would answer that if just looking at a woman (or a man) with lust in your heart is as sinful as physically committing adultery (see "Mount, Comma, Sermon on the"; it's there in Matthew 5:27-28), how is what you're asking about any different?
And yes, I've sinned myself in this manner; let's have no illusions on that score. I know how badly I need Jesus. So I won't get all judgy with you if you have sexual desire for a boyfriend. Though I might try to advise you as a brother in Christ and as a grandfather, be careful that you don't let your (very normal!) sexual feelings lead you into trouble.
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