When you realize what you should have been doing all along, but just didn't "get" it. I feel like a snail in "getting" things sometimes.
Lol I relate to this.
My complaints today :
Getting up and feeling like the tin man. Joints are so stiff and it's uncomfortable. Now I
have to work out. I think.
Five years ago I could eat whatever I wanted. Now I have three bagels in morning (don't judge, I'm really into salmon cream cheese) and then I'm nauseated all day.
Okay, so I don't know if I'm right...about most of my behavioral observations...
But I feel that I'm beginning to see why some people are easily offended. It's a control thing. They want to be owed something...
So, maybe they look for some lowly apologetic soul to feed off of. They can nitpick all of their faults and revel in their indignation until the offender is willing enough to make amends.
It becomes a drain...
Sorry (there I go) for the macabre post, but hey, this is the rant thread...right...
I agree with the control issue thing but I think it's also because most of the younger generations were not raised entirely by their parents.
They were raised by daycare workers and teachers, most of the time with a single parent or an absent parent working extra hard to make ends meet, and even if not by the end of the day, they were sent to their rooms to be raised by video games and TV.
There's going to be some feelings of insecurity from a lack of nurturing since childhood, and also probably not told "no" enough. And most of all they won't learn emotional intelligence and how to regulate their emotions while being brainwashed by everything else raising them.