Something I told my mom today,
In times of trials that is when a light can really shine..
While Jesus could have said anything to those who put him on the cross, and those who turned him over to be hung on the cross.
"Father forgive them, they no know not what they do"
If longsuffering has anything to do with this type of compassion while being ill-treated, or even ignored, or felt as though they are not loved, or they are bothered by others and their own decisions, or they are poor and can't have everything everyone has, and still have compassion and mercy.
That is long-suffering and a light that truly shines.
It all comes from the Spirit of Christ though, and those who do not have the Spirit are not his, or at least that is what Paul had written, and the struggle between the flesh and spirit is a viable thing as well.
All the best, quiet.