I believe that this is a legitimate question that should be asked of My Dreams.
This is the third thread request for a marriage partner for Marget.
In one of those thread I aske this same question as QT and I got hammered by Mel, to the point where the moderators pruned the thread. This is the last post left in that thread.
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My observation of My Dreams is that when people question his motives as to why he is asking for prayer, he starts a new prayer request for healing because he is feeling unwell or because he believes that he is being attacked.
Even I feel this way when I request prayer that is wrongly motivated. God is questioning my motives and I feel sick that God should be questioning me about this.
My response to Mel's request in this thread can be found in post #2.
I framed my post in this manner because I fear that Marget is under immense pressure to find a husband so that she is no longer a burden on the family or her parents.
It seems logical to some to ask God the hurry this process along for a much sooner "marriage" solution than what God may have planned for Marget.
Perhaps we should be praying for Mel that he learns the appropriate way he should converse with God presenting to God his concerns and worries.
Our pray requests should always be focused on Blessing the person concerned rather than praying for a burden for that person.
Shalom