Love is no squishy mushy acceptance and I hope no one here thinks that, love hurts sometimes, love means telling the truth. Now unfortunately many want to attack which is not good. I just wish those people realized there are more types of Christians then them
@Nancy
I believe we need to reach a unity of faith and of knowledge of the Son of God, in such a way that we will begin to build each other up in love, and that this means we stop being children. And that we won't be blown back and forth by all the different doctrines.
I don't believe that there are impossible obstacles to real unity. In fact I know there is a real unity that works this way. I don't believe that we have to have a complete agreement on our doctrines to have this unity.
Ephesians 4
1 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation
calling wherewith ye are called,
2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
(. . .)
13 Till we all come
into the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
Unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ.
We are to come to unity in the faith and the knowledge of the Son of God, and this will be to measure up to the "prime age of maturity" of the fullness of Christ.
Something I've come to pay attention to is how the Bible speaks of Jesus. I'm not saying I think this is in every instance, maybe it is through. Jesus to me speaks of the One Who knows me. Lord is the One Whom I obey. Christ is the One given to redeem us. The Son of Man is One of us. And the Son of God is Emmanuel, God in Christ reconciling the world to Himself.
Jesus said He didn't come to be served, but to serve. And He said that He never did anything on His Own, He said what the Father said, He did what the Father did. He came to give His life a ransom for many, and committed His Spirit into His Father's hands, and in this way showed us God's love, and purchased us back to God.
I offer this.
The unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, in measuring up to the stature of the fullness of Christ, means this.
We've come to understand Jesus' service to God, what Jesus began at His baptism. And we are trusting God in the same way Jesus did.
Philippians 2
3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
5 Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
7 But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
8 And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
9 Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:
10 That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;
11 And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
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Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.
13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.
Who here still has a high opinion of themself?
When that's what we have - a high opinion of our self - that's what we serve, our high opinion.
Jesus became humble and obedient, for the bringing of a gift, and God help Him if He couldn't do it Himself! The best we can do, I think, is to remain convinced of our inability and remain in wonder over God's ability.
Working out our salvation, which is to perform what God is working into us, is directly linked to Jesus' humble obedience, and willingness to suffer loss of everything. Possessions, reputation, whatever. And trusting that God will do what is good.
All in God's desire to reconcile us back to Himself.
Satan tried to get Jesus to mess up the gift. "You being the Son of God, throw yourself down!" Man tried the same, "If You are the Son of God, come down!" Jesus simply endured in giving His gift of love. And God performed His wonderful work.
So are we serving others or serving ourselves? This is a key question. And have we reached the end of our self-reliance? Or have I still "got the stuff"?
I think that if we are giving ourselves for others, and trusting God to be the One working, in order to bring growth to God's people, this is the faith and knowledge of the Son of God. And being able to live this way consistently is measuring up to His stature. The fullness of Christ can be described in "Christ in you,
the expectation of glory", "and the life I live, I live by the faith of the Son of God Who loved me, and gave Himself for me".
In living this way, in a non-reliance on myself, and reliance on Christ, trusting that He's actually here with me, and is active in my life in love, this is the way of the inner man, the righteous and holy new creation. Submitted to His Spirit and so living in love and gentleness and peaceableness and joy. Self controlled, and patient. And not hindering the work of the Holy Spirit through me, as He knows what you need, and how you will best receive it.
Much love!