Hi D,"God foreknew who would be saved."
"All men can choose to be saved or not"
Ok, I see the difference as to the means by which a soul is saved, but not the end. God determined the method of salvation for those who he knew would choose him to start with. He draws all men to him, they can choose him, but all will not and can't possibly choose God because for that to happen they would actually have to hear the message of salvation to start with. So therefore, you still get to the same exact point, that some are destined to judgement no matter what. If it really was as simple as God just "drawing all men to him", then the new testament because a message of universalism and not a message of salvation by personal faith, by hearing the word. And once again, there is a difference between the fate of a soul being judgement and their fate being the Lake of Fire.
We get to the same point, some are destined to be apart from God forever and some will spend eternity with Him in heaven.
There is a big difference in how we get to that point. A big difference in saying that those who go to hell go there of their own free will, and it's not God who is forcing them to go there because He didn't choose them for heaven. Big difference. In one way God is a loving God and in the other way He is not a loving God at all. So I think we agree, I just don't understand your last sentence too well. I don't know if you care to explain it...