I really believe I need to not have an online presence for the time being. Its a personal character issue. I have no problem with the forum itself. I think this is a good place.
If you read the scriptures, not all fighting men were required to go to war for Israel at certain times in their life. One of those times, from memory, was if they had been recently married.
God has given you a gift of a newborn child and your job at this time is to care for that newborn child.
The problem with forums is that they can become addictive and take our focus and time away from what is required of us in our daily lives.
Have a break, have a kit kat, and enjoy the gifts that God has given you to care for.
Shalom