Our husband and father was taken from us by a drunk driver, coming home after working late one Friday night. We had never thought of having life insurance at that time...we were very young. I had married fresh out of high school. I didn't even have a driver's license at that time. Not that it would have done me any good...the car was totaled.
I don't mind telling you...that was a dark time for me. For the next several years I worked like a dog...cleaning people's houses, taking in laundry, cooking for other people, doing yard work, taking care of people's pets and/or kids...whatever would earn me a few dollars. I was a drudge...but I did manage to get an Associate's in Law from a local junior college, with transferable credits in case I wanted to continue. But it was enough to get me a job as a legal secretary, which eventually worked up to legal assistant. I got to dress pretty and wear make up...and make enough money for a decent house and other needs for myself and my kids.
I still miss him sometimes. I sit and watch out the window, even to this day, for the headlights that are never going to turn in to the driveway again. The baby is now 35 years old, with a couple of teen age girls of her own...but sometimes it feels like I just buried him.
I have dated a couple of times...almost got serious once...but he turned out to be a married man. Ugh...
I am currently involved in a house church where we all minister to one another. There is a great deal of love between our families, and we value each and every one equally.
We have even given our children the opportunity to preach for us. My grand daughter, who is about to turn 13, is amazing.
I have this theory that most people are about as happy as they make up their minds that they will be.
And I am determined to be happy...
And I do have my little one-eyed Shih Tzu. He is a little clown, and I adore him.
I don't even have to look that scripture up to know it is The Virtuous Woman. I have a poster with her in my kitchen.
Your Delsey sounds amazing.
You are both very blessed.
Next time you hold your beautiful lady in your arms, think of me, watching for those headlights...and remember to never take what you have for granted, Oz.
Treasure her always.
I have added your page to my favorites, Oz.
Now, have you read any of my stuff? I have a blog on this site, called "The Barrd's Quill". I'd be more than honored if you would take a peek and tell me what you think. The link is the bottom line of my signature.
There are a couple of excerpts from my magnum opus, "The First Sinner" which is an epic tale setting the life of the man called "Barabbas" against the life of Jesus Christ, beginning when they were boys. The premise is that Barabbas, or, in my story "Joshua" was raised to believe himself to be the promised Messiah.
All the Bible tells us of him was that he was in prison for insurrection and murder. I did a bit of research, and made him the leader of a group called "The Sicarii".
Before you correct me, Oz, remember that my book is strictly a work of fiction. But I think you might enjoy it.
Tell her that I absolutely promise...no ear nibbling.
With all my love,
The Barrd