I think of the same …how to address the issue. For me…because I’m a female. It read all the passages on women, Seeing through my own lens I took those verses as sexist. That was MY perspective.
But now I read “the woman” as a whole and not a gender. I wish I could tell other females that God nor the Son of God wrote nor spoke those verses to demean nor attack gender….unless to do away with Greek and Jew, Male and female, bond and free…making one New Body. If they could see what “the woman” really is God speaks of …I think they would read it differently. But as much as females read it as demeaning a gender, if men say the same …I’m not so sure “addressing those issues” is easy. For example if I go to a forum on Google where there is a lot of talk about bible verses that cause people to reject…saying “who in their right mind would accept this nonsense”. They say followers or believers are “indoctrinated” or brainwashed to believe such nonsense. I don’t know if this helps but as much as they say they are not “indoctrinated” nor brainwashed (thinking they are different) from those Baa’ing sheep that will follow anything…they don’t realize they have been indoctrinated or brainwashed also which is the perspective through which they view Christ. “why did you reject Christ?” “From being indoctrinated and brainwashed, all I heard was hate and sexist and tyrants. “ “I swear up one side and down the other that I am right, and finally free from brainwashing or from being indoctrinated by religion” …yet “I judge the Word through my own lens” … “a sexist God! I see! A God full of hate and unmerciful!” …”Nope. Not me, I’m not indoctrinated but free from it.” I want to say “you are more indoctrination than you think.” Not to judge or condemn, but I’ve been there in their shoes. (Imo) no one is free from indoctrination until they see Christ as He really is without all of our damage and warped views.
Encourage a better lens. Don’t hand them over mankind’s lens and tell them to look through that lens and see Christ and accept Him. It’s a distorted lens and it won’t shine a light into the darkness, But instead (that lens) validates (approves)of the darkness. That is just my opinion.