its not murder, the child has not been fully formed, thats why we have birthdays and not conception days, the bible generations start at birth and not conception, Eve did not acknowledge Seth until after he was born.
?? umm yeah i think we all get she gets to have a child if she is innocent, its the guilty option that gets everyone upset. the lady is pregnant, is she pregnant from her husband or another man, thats what the bitter water ritual determines. if she is found to be guilty of cheating the baby is lost.
you need to read the bible without bending the scriptures to conform to your personal political agendas.
in other words we get to cherry pick. Jesus followed the Hebrew bible, i think i will follow that example.