I do not necessarily agree with T. Jefferson regarding Paul, but I do believe Paul was influenced by the culture of his day, and that culture was not completely Christian. Paul caved to the cultural mores of his time and veered from Jesus' teachings in a few instances. I do not believe Paul did this deliberately, it is difficult for all of us to differentiate Jesus' doctrine from our current culture.
So you're a Liberal Christian, and that's okay--you have to come to God with your own honest convictions. But from a more conservative pov, let me suggest this. Paul *knew* what he was doing when he recommended certain external observances. Things like how long your hair is, or whether a woman wore a hat in church, were external things, as Paul well knew. He had already suggested that the gospel was *internal,* and that he was allowed, before God, to put on different hats, so to speak. He could put on the Jewish hate, or the Greek hat. He could reach many by any means, assuming it was external, and not an internal matter.
So Paul was actually advocating for things that represented certain things within the culture he was addressing--not establishing a norm for all peoples. In his churches, limited to his own apostleship, he set down certain standards, because he knew how they would be perceived in those places.
As I said, the symbolism is critical. A woman was not supposed to distract worshipers from the worship of God by displaying her beauty unduly. The hat was a symbol of devotion to God, ahead of the more sensual aspects of life.
Men not having long hair obviously in that culture suggested there was an issue with homosexuality, certain men making themselves appear beautiful like women, displaying their hair to enhance their attractiveness. These are the things Paul was getting at.
And we know that because Paul elsewhere addressed the fact that the externals were less important than the internal realities, although his message here is that the external things are important symbols, communicating truth or lies. Paul was not naïve. We shouldn't be naïve about what he taught either.
This sounds like you are trying to use modern reasoning to understand ancient cultural mores. "It is the glory (of women) to look good to men"? Martha's sister, Mary, was not interested in what men thought of her appearance; she was concerned about learning from Jesus. Your comment devalues women by implying that 'looking good' is a primary reason for women's existence.
I did *not* say that *only* the beauty in women is their sole value for existing!
If you try to deny that women are attractive to men, I wonder where you get your understanding from?
Mary Magdaline was the "apostle to the apostles". None of the other 11 would have even known about the resurrection if it weren't for her. Jesus repeatedly displayed his belief that women were equal with men, and the apostles were repeatedly appalled by Jesus' behavior regarding women. After Jesus' death, the cultural mores about sex were easily re-integrated into Christianity.
Mary M. was *not* an apostle at all! Was she important? Of course!
What you fail to see is that women obtain their reward by doing what they, as women, are called to do, just as men are honored for doing what men are supposed to do.
We are all indeed equal before God. But we do not serve the exact same tasks. Women were built to do pretty much whatever men can do. After all, all men come from women by birth.
But there is in our DNA female and male differences, indicating God has different purposes for each gender. To ignore this is in the mode of homosexuals, who confuse the genders.