Hello @KokyuIt isn't merely that I say so. God's word does.
Yes, if you've been born-again, you've gained a spiritual family; and to that family each member of it has God-commanded responsibilities. No Christian can claim to be walking well with God while neglecting the Body of Believers of which God has made them a part, giving to His children spiritual gifts He intends each of them should use to the edification of the Body.
1 Corinthians 12:12-20
12 For as the body is one and has many members, but all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ.
13 For by one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—whether Jews or Greeks, whether slaves or free—and have all been made to drink into one Spirit.
14 For in fact the body is not one member but many.
15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body?
16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body?
17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where would be the smelling?
18 But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body just as He pleased.
19 And if they were all one member, where would the body be?
20 But now indeed there are many members, yet one body. 21 And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.”
Ephesians 4:11-16
11 And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers,
12 for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the [e]edifying of the body of Christ,
13 till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ;
14 that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting,
15 but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ—
16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love.
Herbrews 10:23-25
Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful.
24 And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works,
25 not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.
I don't say so, God does. See above. Would you say, in light of the above passages, that God is pleased with your persistent separation from the Body of which He's made you a part? The Bible says that we know we have passed from death unto life if we love the brethren (1 Jn. 3:14). How do you love the brethren well while remaining for years separate from them? To properly love your siblings in the Lord, to love them best, you must have a personal relationship with them, your life open to them in self-sacrificing care of them (1 Jn. 4:7-11). Is this how you've been living?
With all due respect, you’re neither my father nor my mother.
Scholar.
Let me demonstrate what truly pleases God.
Hebrews 11:6 (NLT): “And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him.”
So, I pose these questions sincerely:
- Does God know where I stand in my relationship with Him?
- Can He see whether I truly seek Him or not?
I’ve already read the Gospels and the Letters, so no need to quote them—unless you feel like it, of course. I just think there’s a lot of value in someone exploring the Bible for themselves and discovering what it really has to offer. That kind of personal journey is meaningful.
When it comes to how I live my own life, I’ll be honest—I'm far from perfect, and I fall short in so many ways. But the beautiful part is this: Yeshua did everything I never could. He lived in full obedience to the Father—not just for me, but for everyone in the world. That truth brings me peace and hope every single day.
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