The same authority that assembled the Bible you believe supersedes the Church.....
The same authority that decided to worship on Sunday
The same authority that decided to meet as a church
The same authority that Paul talks about
The same authority that protected the Bible from heresy, until Luther decided to open the door to 10 thousands denominations, rabid individualism ad relativism.
Thanks for asking
Hey Aspen, I've just gotta jump in here!! Protestants don't worship the Bible (at least we shouldn't, and most of us don't!)...but the reason we put such high regard to it, is well.....it's God's word to us! That seems like a little bit of a 'no brainer' to me! You say that the Bible was protected from heresy until Luther came. I disagree...if God is indeed all powerful, and His word to us is the scriptures, then I believe that despite the sin and folly of all mankind, His word will remain. There will be many people who argue about the purity of the Bible we have today....but we must dig into how we arrived at what we have today. We KNOW that God gave us the Bible...and any extra 'books' must be compared to them....scripture will not, and does not contradict itself. I know many people say it does, but that is faulty human understanding, not God's message. So those who complied the bible we have today have taken books that are certain, and weighed others against them, against what Jesus taught. For example, the supposed teaching of Jesus where He says that women must become like men, because women are not fit to live....obviously that is a false teaching...Jesus never taught that...He taught that men are the head, women their helpers...different roles and responsibilities, but still equal. Peters books teach this as well, echoing Jesus' teachings. So you see, it's not some heretical smooshing together...some truly godly men worked hard and prayfully to be true to God.
The big worry I have about some of the Catholics understandings is that they seem content to rely on things that cannot be backed up Biblically. they rely on historical writtings (which may or may not be factual), oral hand downs, pope edict etc. I think the big point Protestants are trying to make when they place all authority on Scripture, is not that scripture is to be worshipped, but that as a definate revelation from God, every other 'maybe' revelation needs to be able to be backed up and reinforced by scripture. Because lets face it, men are sinful and fallen, and there are many 'spirit's out there who would love nothing more than to decieve. So if even a well meaning and normally godly man suddenly announces that 'Mary never died' (just for eg) then unless we can back it up in scripture, then that claim must be held in doubt.
To make doctrine, or even Church tradition out of something that can only be confirmed through a fallen human...well, I'm afraid it's such mistakes that has led to some of the 'christian cults' we see - JW, mormons, and even more recently the 'emerging liberal church'.
I truly have no problem with seeing so many Catholics as my brothers and sisters in Christ...I know you love Jesus, and that's what truly counts. But sadly there is the concern that many of our Catholic brothers and sisters are becoming decieved by some of the extra biblical teachings...leading them away from Christ.
But back to the origianl topic!
I think the conflict basically comes down to right and wrong....as in, people's opinions of it. Catholic's believe they're right, Protestants think they are too. People don't tend to take kindly when they're accused of being flat wrong...even Christians!! Because let's face it, we wouldn't put our trust and belief in something we were only mildly concerned about! Faith and religion is about identity, passion...about life...the living and dying of it! Why do the Islamic extremist happily fight and die for their beliefs? Is the same prinicpal I think.
So how on earth do we reconcile with this kind of in depth emotion and opposing beliefs? I think we need to agree to disagree...focus on what we do have in common rather than scrap over what we don't. And if we do talk on those oppositions, we need to do it with a mindfullness, a prayfullness. We want to encourage others to think, to study, to learn, to seek....we don't want to war. War only destroys and hurts and increases animosity. We need to know that others may never change their minds, and it's not our job to do it either. We preach the gospel, but it is up to the hearer and the work of the Holy Spirit to move and convict.
In short....we shouldn't take it as a personal insult that someone doesn't agree with us!!